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ok so this is like my 5th period and i've never had cramps really bad. today im having really bad cramps. whats the best thing to do, to stop the pain? its unbarable!

--->luvsu

I totally know what you mean. I've had one period that my cramps hurt so bad I would do ANYTHING to get rid of them! I found that the best thing you can probably do is drink lots of water and get in a position on the couch where it wont hurt as much and watch tv until it goes away. Not much else you can do :]

xOox-emily

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Well me and my two best friends just to let you know how close we are: we are like crazy and we are always together, i mean i love hanging out with them and everything. Out of our class we are definately the prettiest and most fun to be around. People throughout our school know us as the BIG not cause we are big but because of our initials. I mean we agree on the same guys and everything i swear we are related but we arent. So here is the problem: We went to an FFA conventionand we were all totally looking for guys i mean what else would we be doing. But see Lindsey is the only one that has a cell phone so we always use her number and well of course they all like Lindsey right away because they got HER phone number but then if they are hott we like all fall in love with them but like i am usually the one who doesnt really care. And well this time the guy is calling me all the time and i think i am starting to like him but i dont want to tell my best friends about it because who knows what would happen. i mean i want to tell them but they are always saying no he likes me and they are fighting over who they likes between them and they act like just because i never argue i dont like him but secretly i do and i think he likes me too. but what i want to know is should i tell them that i like them and hope that they support me or should i let them find out on their own. but i would feel really bad about not telling them everything because we always say everything that happens and i dont want it to seem like i am lying to them! help? and if it matters i really really like this guy

The best thing that you could do right now is tell them. Picture this.. If you ended up liking this guy as much as you think you do and he becomes your boyfriend, wouldn't that be harder to explain to your friends? I think so :] lol, but yea, just tell them in the best words that you can and ask them to PLEASE not interfere with his and your relationship because he means alot to you :] Get together everything your gonna say to them and then rehearse it, then just tell them :]! Hope this helps

xOox-emily

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