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My husband left my children and I July 2013. He walked out took the car. Junked it so neither of us could have it. During the marriage he stole from my father and from my son. For money. He'd lie about it. During the time we have been separated he meet a girl lived with her and her 2 toddlers and 1 infant. They didn't work out. I ended up having to move up north for support. I didn't have any family were we lived. I filed for divorce. Recently the last 2 to 3 weeks he wants to get back together he loves me and the kids he wants to be a family he'll go to church counseling find a job and keep it work hard. He says he's changed he's sorry I ask why he did the things he did he says he was stupid. He says I won't regret taking him back he wants to prove to me how much he loves me how much he's changed I don't know what to do. (link)
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well,how do you exactly feel about this? you see, no advice is as good as the one that's in your heart right now.obviously, you still care for him for you wouldn't be confused as to what you should do if you don't.and only you can tell if he's sincere or not.but if you want us to explore the pros and cons here, then let's start with the pros:if you give him a second chance(i take it that was a first offense with regards to leaving you)then there is a possibility of mending what he has broken a year ago, of having a complete family again, of having the man you love with you again.and the cons:the finality of divorce, well, that could be drastic on you both, not to mention the impact it could have on the kids.and of course, what if he is lying,what if this is just a ploy to get you back again and do much worse? but then, who are we to tell the future? no one's been there yet.and the only things that we can rely on in times like these are our emotions(which like the currency is fluctuating)our intuition and of course, there is FAITH. if you have the last one, i think a decision wouldn't be so hard to arrive at.God bless and good luck
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