Gender: Female
Member Since: March 10, 2014
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Last Update: March 10, 2014
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My “friend" is totally ditching me for some brat, and I can prove it. When I told her how I felt, she said that I can sit next to her at lunch. But the brat who drowned her a couple years ago but is all of a sudden her best friend, was sitting next to her, and refused to move. In fact, the brat started to scream at me, and my “friend" just told me to sit in front of her. I'm not letting her get away with it. I'm gonna tell my other friend why my ex-friend REALLY isn't going to her party. But I wanna do more. Any ideas? (link)
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Sweetie, I completely understand where you are coming from, for when I was in my freshman year, my so called friend completely ditched me for someone else. She replaced me and made another individual her best friend. For the longest time I wanted her to feel the same way I did, so I would avoid her, ignore her and hang out with completely different people. But then I realized, exactly what is it that I am even getting out of this revenge? And the answer to that was, hatred, increased jealousy and pain. You see, I was trying to do what she did to me, but at the same time I didn't want to lose her. The whole thought of revenge was making matters worse, because in the end, instead of coming out straight with my feelings, I was avoiding them and pushing her away. Revenge is not sweet, no matter how good it may look to you. Do not rely on revenge to give you happiness. The only one who can give you true happiness is yourself. It's your choice to decide the rest. I know it can be hard, trust me but take the high road and talk to her face to face.
-SM
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