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Okay...to start off im a 16 y.o. female and have been dating my bf for 2 years and 2 months (hes also 16).
Unfortunately, a few months ago i found text messeges to my best friend on my bfs phone telling her that he likes her and i found that he had been texting her every night for about a week. finally he asked if she felt anything back and she said no...bc she didnt ever feel that way towards MY bf.
Me and him were broken up for awhile, but i realized that my love for him made me forgive him...he told me it was just a physical attraction crush thing. Anyways...to make a long story short...were together.
However, my best friend had been dressing in shirts that are VERY low cut and leaving nothing to the imagination. I CONSTANTLY find my bf sneaking looks at her chest and i get sooo angry with him. He says its a natural reflex and to tell her to stop hanging out. I tell him that i should trust him not to look..but he "cant help it". I cant help but be jealous and i really need him to stop.
I DONT KNOW what to do. He's said that he would stop looking a billion times and he doesnt. I REALLY need help as to what to do bc i cant take him staring at her all day...it just brings up bad memories.
Thanks for your help...and im sorry its so long :-( (link)
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dump him bc you shouldnt have to go through this and even though you may have feelings for him, that does not mean you should make yourself uncomfortable.
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