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Ok now at our school we just got a new sport....volleyball. We have already had try-outs and evidentally i made the team so is there any website or anything that has all the rules and everything...but my one big question is when you are serving (we have to over handed) that if you throw it up and get a bad toss catch it and throw it again...what happens??

Thanks in advance any help is appreciated
-Lesha (link)
Ok well I dont really know of one particular site that would tell you all the rules to the game but just google it and im sure you will be able to find plenty. But with an over hand serve you can make a bad toss only one service round. So if you make a bad toss then let it drop and then just toss it up again. but make it a good one because you can only catch it once. Hope it Helps. & good luck. Volleyball is a very fun sport. Hope you enjoy it as much as i do :)
*SM


well i weigh 160 and im 17 im on the verdge to diabeties and i need a fast diet any thing that can help??? and i want to loose wait as fast also :) (link)
Ok. Here is a really easy and fast way to lose weight. You might have already heard about it but it is called the Apple Cidar Vinegar Diet. I have been doing it and it really works. What you do is you drink 2 tablespoons of the ACVinegar 3 times a day.(before your 3 meals) But you can nly take it with food or else it wont work. It helps speed up your metabolism and break down fat. It really works. Take it 15 mintues before each meal and cut down on the snacks. No exercise is really aqcuired but I run once a day because its good for you. Try to drink water or propel and healthy drinks like that. The diet is very affective if you do it right. I lost 10 pounds in the first week. There is really no certain foods that you need to eat with it either just keep it to a minumim and tghe objective of this diet is to not eat alot so you eventually get to where you don't eat near as much. If you want more information on this diet just google it and you will find lots of information on it.Hope this helps :) & Good Luck!
*SM


I have a very slim phsyique. Like my body is very slender and long. The only issue is the waist area below and around my belly button. It's like this these two bumps of fat on either side of my navel. It's weird since the rest of me is slim. I don't have any other places on my body that are fatty like my tummy. Imagine this: Skinny rib area. Skinny waist area. Then *bowm*. Fat. It really is queer looking. So I need some exercises to target this tummy area. My natural waist is fine; I just need target exercises for the low-riding jeans waist area. Thanks, LOL. (link)
I have the exact same problem you have. I am very long and slender but i have a little fat on my tummy. There isn't just one certain thing you can do to fix it. If you're just doing crunches every day then stop because that wont help. If all you do is crunches and you dont add exercise and a good diet in there then all you do is build muscle on top of fat in your tummy area. Make sense? Because you're targeting your muscle but all it does is build on top of your fat and make you look even bigger. So I suggest if you do crunches then thats fine, but add some cardio and a healthy diet. i.e. running and walking every day and just eating healthy foods. I've had to do it and it worked for me and Im alot healthier. Hope it works :)
*SM


16 years old/female
I've been asked by a lot of guys when I'm going to have sex and whether or not I can have it now. Like..soon. I always say no, and that I'm willing to wait a long time until somebody actually WORTH my time and who's there for me...will share that moment with me, you know? I want it to not be rushed. And I certainly don't want any diseases or unexpected pregnancies (this is keeping me away from having sex now) and I feel like when I tell them I don't want to have sex until marriage, I'm embarrassing myself. But, actually..I do believe I'm a step higher than they are. Should I feel embarrassed? I mean..It's so wrong to have sex in high school, in my opinion..=/ help? (link)
You are better then them. NEVER lower yourself to please anyone else. You should not at all feel embarrased with your commitment to wait for marriage, you should be PROUD. If you want to wait and don't feel like your ready then dont. It sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders so I know you will be fine. If thats how you feel then that is great. Always remember: True love is worth the wait.
Good Luck :)


Ok so im 13 and i have the most amazing boyfriend ever its been a little more than 3 months now!
We havent kissed yet. Ive never kissed anyone and I know for a fact he hasnt either. I really want to kiss him i like him so much.
so I understand these questions sound wierd but please help!

1:How do i give him the hint i want to kiss him?
2:where do i put my hands!
3:what way do i tilt my head?
4:how long do we kiss?
5:open or close my eyes?


Please help me i really like him

Thank you so much in advance!
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1. if you know he likes you and you're dating, he probably wants to kiss you to and is just scared to do it. so go ahead and make the first move. You have nothing to lose.
2. Dont worry about where you put your hands, things like that just seem to kind of fall into place and he wont be worried about where you are putting your hands anyway.
3. You dont really have to tilt your head a certain way you just do it. Kissing is not that akward, it seems scary at first but once you do it and you dont want to stop and it just comes natural.
4. Kiss as long as you want! You might stop after the first little peck but then go after it again, that way its romantic and sweet. Sweet little pecks are the best. Remember that
4. Close your eyes for the first time, if you're both just sitting there looking at eachother it can be pretty akward so close them for now.

Hope that helps!
*SM


what is a song about doing something that hurt so bad, and youre soo sorry for hurting the person, but it was the right thing to do for now, but you love them with all your heart and its hurting you too?

is there one?

preferably rock/alternative.
three days grace, seether, linkin park, all time low, etc...
or even like rascal flatts..
and preferably something newer.
thanks.
withlove. (link)
Here by me- 3 doors down

hope it helps




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