Member Since: August 1, 2014
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Last Update: August 1, 2014
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I'm a 19 year old female, and I should be over this sort of thing. I'm very shy, and super sensitive about everything that happens to me. I probably read too much into things like little comments, but I can't help it. I instantly think that everyone hates me (even though I know they have no reason to). I can't take criticism. When I don't see my boyfriend for a day or 2 or if he doesn't call me, I feel sad and I cry because I feel like he doesn't love me since he hasn't called. If hes talking to someone else I feel like hes talking and whispering something about me, then I get sad and ignore him. If he yells at me because he says I want too much attention. I will cry, If he talks to me about it later then Im happy. I don't want him to leave me. There's been times when I think hes ignoring me because I just want to spend time with him. I have tendencies to become jealous very, very quickly; I get cry over everything; I push away my friend because I over react to everything. I get jealous when he talks to other people and ignores me. I dint want him all to myself, but I want him to spend more time with me. I get emotional over the most ridiculous things. I have now hurt my relationship with him, and I am at a loss for what to do. I need help. I get sad when he looks at other women or when I see one from his job, because I think he might like them. I just keep thinking he might wanna be with them, because they are pretty and have acne and scars. I don't bother him 24/7 and Im not always knocking on his door.
I dont get mad about things and throw tanturms, Im just mostly sad.
Then there are examples like today at the store, it was packed to the brim with people and screaming kids. It was all I could do to get out of there without losing it completely, and when I was at the register I asked the cashier if I could have 20 quarters for my 5 dollar bill and she refused saying that only place I can do that is to go to a casino. As a result, as soon as I got in my car I burst into tears. I don't even know why! She wouldn't give me quarters, big deal?
AM I really emotionally immature? (link)
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This has happened to me before and I really believe and advocate for mental health and mental illness and so many people are affected and it effects relationships and everyday life. You may want to see a therapist and a psychologist to determine if you have a mood disorder of some sort. I have a mood disorder and it can be treated and controlled. You may want to consider this as something that is a possibility. Although your relationship with this man may be over considering I see the date of your post from 2010 and it is now 2014, I would still see if seeking some sort of treatment would help to balance your emotions. I practice DBT skills and meditation to help my mind. I also am on medication and it helps with my mood swings. Just take a second and collect yourself. Have a checklist in your mind. Is this logical? is it fair? ask someones opinion before reacting.
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