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What is excatly a handjob like i knew before and i forgot and when people talk about it i dont want to feel stupied and ask them and be like u dont know what a handjob is i thought u did and everything please help me..? (link)
It's when a person stimulates a man's penis using their hands The other poster is describing male masturbation, which is when a man stimulates his own penis, usually with his hand.

I am going to assume you are underage, so look at a shakeweight advertisement and watch the motion of the hand and pretend the object is a penis, and you will get the idea.


My sister say they wish they hadnt lost there virginty why is that..?
Also, i was wondering wht do u have to do to be prepared for sex like wht do i have to do so hes not discusted or something like im not sexauly active but i want to know if i ever decide that im ready..? (link)
Because some people consider it special and regret the symbolic waste of their virginity to a person that they didn't have much of a relationship or emotional connection with. It's more special to many people if it is done with someone you genuinely love.


I was 16 when I started dating this boy.. but I fell in love with him at 13.. I was crazy about him. I was estatic when I finally got him to date me. Things were going well, he was very jealous of my best guy friends (girls didnt like me) and broke up with me after 3 months. I somehow won him back and we were great through high school. He was always super busy however, which made it difficult to see him and spend time together. But I loved him and wanted it to work. I would go see every one of his soccer games and became friends with all of his friends. I also rarely seen my best guy friends, as i didn't like it when he hung out with his girl friends either (me and them used to be best friends and they stabbed me in the back). When it came time for us to go to secondary school, he moved three hours away to a university. I missed him and texted him everyday. I was close with his family (even though secretly his mom drove me nuts, she was very controlling, i treated her well and we got along great). I even visited his mom while he was away. things seemed alright, I would go out and party quite a bit with my new friends but i was always loyal. It wasn't until he came home after the year and started to come to the community college with me that things started to get out of control. Everytime i was with him his music drove me nuts and i felt bored. He complained about how much money i spent on myself and complained about having to spend his money to take me places. I got frustrated withhis curfews and endless homework assignments that seemed to come before me. We argued often but loved each other and made up always. It wasn't until this past november that things started to go wrong, we fought and couldn't get along. When i wanted to have sex he would push me away, when i needed someone to talk to a night (my parents were going through a divorce) he would text me and say that he needed to go to bed cause he had school in the morning. he broke up with me and i was fine, i cried the day it happened and moved on quickly, i started to hang out with a friend from high school and we got along great, the only problem there was that he was very committment shy and i knew it wouldn't work. One night while drunk i slept with an ex (i lost my virginity to the boy i am writing about and we had never slept with anybody else). A few weekends later, i slept with a new boy. I don't know why i slept with either. My ex found out about the first boy and was hurt, i felt terrible and told him about both, feeling as if honesty was the best policy. He got mad and called me dirty names. I apologized endlessly and eventually we began to spend time together again, just like when we were dating but it was better. Cuddling meant more and we did more things. last thrusday i asked him if we would be able to spend friday together and he told me that he was hanging out with the backstabbing girls from high school, naturally i freaked out and became sick to my stomach because i knew something horrible was to come. The next afternoon he stopped texting me (which was unusual because since we started talking again we texted all day, everyday) getting worried and jumping to the worst conclusions possible I began calling and calling and texting and got no replies. I finally called his house where his dad answered and told me he had gone out. Immediatly after that he texted me and said simply "im fine". I was upset and wanted answers, i got none, he stopped replying. The next morning still after not hearing from him, i called his house again, but this time his mom picked up. She rudely told me to stop calling and that i was no longer welcome in the house. She told me that me and him were not dating and that he didnt want to be my friend any longer. She told me that i was a distraction to his studies and that he had a future. I told her that i didnt understand and that we had been spending time together and texting and that i got worried when i hadnt heard back in 8 hours. she told me to leave him alone and hung up on me. I broke down. he gave no answers, he did however text me to tell me that e doesnt want me back. i asked for answers and he had none. I am hurt byond belief, we spent 3 years together and even though things began to fall apart near the end, i miss what we had. I still love him adn want him back more than anything. My freinds tell me to stay away. yesterday, knowing where in the college he would be studying, i went to see him, he told me to go away and that he wants nothing to do with me. I am devestated and dont think that i will ever fall in love again. As much as i hate to admit it, suicide crossed my mind because i dont think i can live without him. He told me we would be together forever, where did i go wrong? (link)
You slept with two guys because your boyfriend wouldn't spend time with you during a rough spot in your relationship, and you don't know where you went wrong?

"He told me we would be together forever"
People change their minds.
You have lost him. Even if you were able to get him back, you wouldn't have the same relationship you had before. You need to move on.


I was planning to go to NYC and shop around. However, there are so many stores in NYC and don't want to be wondering all over the place. Does anyone know a website where I can print out a map that has like the names of the stores and where they are. So as I'm walking I can refer to the map and see exactly where to go (what turn to take) and the store I want to go to? Thank you ahead of time, greatly appreciated! (link)
I am almost certain that there isn't a website with this capability at the current time. I wish I could say otherwise, but if it existed, everyone would know of it.



hey everyone 13/f I love watching old movies on tcm and up to date movies in old time surrondings like in a different time period like the Notebook in the 40's. I was just wondering is there men still like that these days like noah from the notebook and similar characters. I just really can't explain I mean like that aren't trash. Like thats sweet old fashioned and things? I hope I'm not making A fool outta myself I just hate it when I think about it that guys aren't the same now as when they were in the 40's and 50's ? So do you think their are still guys like that?? Thanks you guys(: Please help! (link)
Of course there are. You are just at a bad age for finding mature and decent men.

Honestly, guys weren't much of much better character in the 40s and 50's. Everything looks better in retrospect than it really was.


What is the most painless way to commit suicide (link)
It's not really possible to answer this question as it's very hard to research such a thing.



i think i might have a computer virus.
i was on facebook, and all of a sudden a popup comes up and it says that i have 7 viruses found, it's come up about 5 times tonight, and it's not my regular virus protection software. i tried to open up my regular one, and it wouldnt let me. the popup is called " MS Removal Tool" i tried opening the control panel to see if something got downloaded, and it's not on there. sometimes when i close out of the program, it talks about registration, and when it finally closes, my home screen will be blue. i'll click on the personalize tab, and then the desktop background tap, and it'll go back to normal automatically without me having to change the picture. can anyone help me? (link)
DangerNerd covered it well, but I have had to deal with several species of 'fake antivirus programs' on my families computers. I want to cover a few more things.

It's entirely possible that the virus will prevent you from downloading and running malwarebyte's program, claiming it is infected. If you have a flash drive, I recommend transferring the programs from a non-infected computer through the flash drive, so that it doesn't need to be installed. If it prevents you from using the program you should restart the computer in safe mode and try to fix it from there.

If you are unable to use internet explorer properly, it may have also messed with Internet Explorer's proxy settings. To fix this, go to tools, internet options, connections, lan settings and deselect proxy server.


What are legitimate supplementary application reasons? So you don't sound like...a person that doesn't take responsibility for their own actions and blames everyone but themselves for their failures?

There's only one university I want to go so bad! I worked so hard but the work has been so hard and fast-paced (if I had more time it would have been good but I was always 3 steps behind on everything and then a test hits!). The teachers' teaching methods weren't great, not to mention that for one science course, textbooks weren't available for us to take home.

I've been secretly dealing with my self esteem and mental health issues. I've been going to self esteem work shops at night and going to counselling appointments to deal with day to day troubles and resolving past issues, and seeing a psychiatrist to deal with my depression and anxiety (perhaps OCPD she said). SO even though I don’t have a part time job or involve in extracurricular activities (I volunteer on weekends), it kinda makes up for it plus sometimes I have to miss a class because appointments are only available during school hours so I have to leave at some point during school.

Are these things I should put in my application? Or what have you put in yours?

What else can apply? Should I even put anything about the second paragraph? I mean people judge, so I'm just really scared and concerned.

If I have to stay back another year to try and get in, I will but I'm just filling in the application hoping that they'll accept me this year. (link)
A bit more about yourself would have been useful, such as an age, SAT score, GPA, and whether you are in-state or not.

I went with the assumption that you are fresh out of highschool.

"Are these things I should put in my application? Or what have you put in yours?"

You should put in your volunteering experience, certainly. With my application, I was able to put down that I had volunteering experience and extracurricular and school activities.
I also did an essay in which I wrote a few paragraphs on the topic. If the supplementary section of the application has an optional essay, I suggest you do it.

I wouldn't recommend adding that you have mental health issues, as this may raise concerns, and I honestly would avoid claiming that your previous school is at fault. While I sympathize with you, the people in control of applications may consider this an excuse.

It's entirely possible you can arrange your schedule around your appointments, and some professors do not mind if you are in class or not. If not, you probably can work out something if you explain your situation.

If you don't get in the first time, you can always attend a tech school or another college and transfer to that university sophomore year.



Okay, well every time I smoke marijuana, my skin gets sooo oily the next day. How can I prevent this ? (link)
You are asking how to prevent this?
I checked several sources(primarily erowid), and even though this specific issue wasn't mentioned, it's probably a side effect from THC, I am not sure there is a way to prevent it, other than the obvious.

Ya gotta take the bad with the good. :/






I wanted to know (what does it mean when you poop with blood when you go to the bathroom>? (link)
There are a vast number of reasons for bloody stools. Most generally the bleeding is coming from somewhere in your digestive system. There are a great number of causes for the blood, primarily caused by hemorrhoids and diverticulitis. However it can be caused for a number of other reasons.

As it is impossible to determine the cause of the blood without examination, I advise you to consult a doctor if you continue to have bloody stools.


Is it possible to contract an STD by accidentally touching semen because now I have an std (link)
Technically gonorrhea is an STI which is a big difference, as it's curable, but yes, it's probable that the STI got transferred through the open wounds.


I have a compaq and it seriously sucks. The battery lasts twenty minutes and it doesn't even go til zero, it dies at 15 percent. When it dies, I have to take the battery out, plug it in first and then put the battery in. Then when it turns on, I have to reconnect to the internet everytime. I want to get a mac for 999.99 but my dad says I don't need it. What do I do? ): (link)
Unless you have had a lot of bad experiences with pcs, I wouldn't recommend it, because it's nearly 500$ more than a PC that, with good care, would probably last 4-5 years.




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