Member Since: December 12, 2007
Answers: 1
Last Update: December 13, 2007
Visitors: 906
|
| |
|
ok i know its gonna be kinda confusing but i don't know exactly how to start,... i had a boydfriend, we were together for 2 years and a half, but everything started to destroy from the 1 anyversary, we started to have lots of problems with trust, becuase the 1 year i was so confortable with him, i was so sure that he would never ever do anything to hurt me and that i was the only one, but then i discover he started to like attention, cause usually not many girls will like him, but all of a sudden a lot of girls started to be interested on him, and the first time smoething like this happen i forgave him because i thought oh maybe he is not used to girls comming onto him so now he knows hes handsome and gets attention...cause there was this girl that was suppose to be his new friend and she was like saying lots of things like "hey do you like someone at school? knowing he has a girlfriend. and asking things like ..do oyyou think im pretty cause i think im sooo ugly ...so he would say something like of course your not ugly i think your really pretty and things like this, she used to make lots of comments like if she was so insecure about herself just for him to say nice things to her..when i found out about him i told him, and he was like oh sorry its just that i felt bad that shes so insecure about her looks (of course i was like "how can she be so insecure about her looks if she uploads hundreds! of pictures of herself in her blog?") and then he kinda understood that ,,,then ,..another thing like this happen, this super firendly girl started to receive comments from him like "you look soooo pretty in that picture ;)" things like this ,,and i found out and got so mad at him,..since then i haven't been able to trust in him again..now i found out he was receiving messages from a random girl on myspace like "oh your so hot your soo handsome" things like this ...and i was so mad i was like ok its not his fault that she wrote that ..but then he aswer! like "hey thnx whats your email?" and i got so mad and told him i couldn't trust in him and i wasnt' confortable with this ..his kinda popular in my city cause he has a band and things like this so that made easier for girls to approach to him, ...he used to be so insecure about his lokks while we were together ...but then ,,now with all this girl things he is so secure about his looks.....then another thing came.. i looked at his email account and he had this email from a girl like ohh baby how are you haven't talk to you please answer you know i love you please lets be friends again cutie please write me back....and i told him i saw that ...and he was like ...that doensn't mean anything its one simple email someone sent me and this girl is not even from our city so who cares if i answer ..i told him what was bothering me was not the mail ...was that he was answering back!...we broke up...but still when i log into his msn i saw like 50 new girls i didn't knew he had in his list...and im soo insecure now cause i wanna get back with him and hes constantly begging for me to come back with him...but i told him i just dont trust in him..for several things that happen...i know he wants me back,,and me too...but i don't like that kind of things :S like having hundreds of pretty girls on her list that they added him just to get to know him cause they are interested in him! please help!! im soooo confuse cause i wanna go back with him...but...im sick of having to be spying his email acount his msn his facebook, his myspace and worse finding things like this!! do you think i should just not go back with him??cause also i think that if he cared enough like he says he wouldn't be doing this kind of things over and over again :S ...im so confused please help hes become very flirty =S!! and i hate that !!! (link)
|
Hey girl,
Ok first things first. Are you cute? Because if you are, then you should be going out with me! I would treat you like a gorgeous woman should be treated. I am so loyal that ether women disgust me when I am in love with my woman. Disgust me! Hows that for love eh? I was married for 11 years, and I have only been with 2 women my entire life. I am not afraid to say it. It is because I cannot have sex, I can only make love, and I have only ever truly loved one woman, and before her, I was only fooled into thinkng it was love, when it was just lust. But know I am searching for my true love, the one I was supposed to love from the start. I loved my wife so completely and we were best friends, and better lovers. But her depression was a monster and eventually she allowed it to take her over and destroy our marriage. Your probably wondering why I am telling you this, how does it relate to you and your problem? My wife cheated on me 3 times, on the internet. She never had physical sex with them, and I am not sure if she had cybersex with them or not, I doubt it, but it felt just like I had walked into the bedrom and she was there with another guy, basically it amounts to the same thing, her computer, which I hand built custom just for her and since she loved playing games on there, mmorpg's I built it super fast, high end so it ran beautifully. Anyway, she used it to flirt , chat and tell some guy she never ever met in real life that she loved him. Afterward she claimed she was just confused, she thought I might have been cheating on her, even though she knew I wasnt in reality, I spent too much time taking care of her, she wa always ill almost 90% of the time she was too sick to do anything, psycosomatic I think, anyway, after promising it would never happen again and confessing her true love for me and so on, she did it again! 6 months later after the first, and she had done it to me again with some other guy on some lame ass game on there, then almost a year later, again, I catch her doing it with yet a third guy!! COuldnt believe it. We have a son together, he just turned 7 and not only that but she would have died about 6 times if I had not saved her , literaly saved her life!!!If i had not been there, she would have died, so anyway, what I am trying to say toyou is, it is not worth it. In my book, your boyfriend has already cheated on you. Period. No doubt about it, just on what YOU told us here in your post, what you already witnessed contitutes cheating in my book. Right? ./......Right. Im sorry but it is true and you know it. I was just too stupid to forgive her everytime she did it, it just made her want to do it again, because she knew I would forgive her out of love. She was abusivve to me , she would hit me, yell at me, start vicious fights out of thin air or for very little things that she has no right to even get upset with me about, like putting my shoes inthe corner, and she will happen to trip over them, IN THE CORNER and yell at me to move them, she could have broken her neck ect, and its stupid shit like that,you know? So look, the only reason you even want him back is you dont want to be alone. And for him, he is probably actually not good looking but because he has a hot girl other girls automatically want to get with him, but when they fin dout he is a jerkoff they dont want to get with him, which is why he still wants you, turns out he didnt realize chicks dont like assholes, and he must not be getting any. So save yourself a lot ofheartache and either go out with me, or find another guy that is nice. Try a nerd or geek, they will love you forever and never look at another. :)
Peace
Jason
|
|