Member Since: February 27, 2009
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im 16/f
and hes 18/m
ill try to make this as short as possible.
we've been dating for a little over a month.we kinda rushed as you would say, we've been through the sex and i love you stage. and im geting kinda lost. hes on probation, and he has a bad rep of being a man whore sort of. well he gave me his password to change his about me, because i wanted to write it, so i was looking and i found sent messages that he sent girls on those truthboxes, saying, well nasty things, just weeks before we dated, and he was telling girls i love you and all this other things. we've already been through the "your not cheating on me are you" and then people all say hes not good news and i get frustrated and tell him what people are saying. i dont want him to think that i dont trust him, which i actully dont really completely or that i was snooping, which i was. i know i should talk to him but i really care about him, even if we did rush into things. any advice?
thank you sooo much. (link)
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This sounds so familiar to me. I am almost 20. My ex is 27. Seven months ago I met this amazing guy, he was everything I wanted in a husband! He was the whole package, or so I thought. We got serious really fast. We started dating a week after we met. At first it was amazing, everything I could have hoped for. He would suprize me with flowers or buy me perfume. Everything was as I pictured it. After dating a month we had sex for the first time. I was a virgin and I wanted to wait but he was drunk and persuaded me too. It upset me a lot and the next day when I talked to him about it, he didnt remember ANYTHING!! After that everything feel apart. He stopped being the guy I thought he was and started being the guy he really was. He was an alcoholic and a constant flirt. He started to ignore me and was never there for me when i neeeded him. He stopped answering or returning any of my calls. He had told me that he had cheated on past girlfriends and that he was a bad guy. But me beileving that people can change let him in. Needless to say that I saw that we couldn't be together with him treating me that way. So i broke up with him, over an email since he wouldnt answer his phone. A week later he had another girlfriend. I dont know if he was talking to her while he was still with me or not, but i knida think he was. He was my first love. I loved him, I honestly did. But sometimes you have to love yourself even more. I would say learn from others. If you have a bad feeling about him. Dont stay, cause it will just get worse. And it will be harder on you. I would say confront him cause you should be able to talk to your man in your relationship. Dont accuse him just address your concerns. Thats what I would do. I gave my ex too many chances all because i loved him and I got nothing but heartache. Just be careful. And do what you feel in your heart, as cliche as that is. I hope that helps you. Goodluck dear!
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