Member Since: October 21, 2010
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Last Update: October 21, 2010
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I recently lost my virginity in September. I expected the first time to be painful but the next three times were also painful, but the initial pain went away after a minute. I understand this could be because the times I have sex are usually spaced out by a week or two. The problem is, I don't get much enjoyment out of sex. I have feeling, but it just feels more like pressure than pleasure. Other activities give me more pleasure than sex, such as oral sex.
I don't know if this could be related but about a week and a half after having sex I got a yeast infection and then after the second time for having sex I seemed to get another infection of some sort. I'm not at risk for any STD's because we were both virgins and we always use condoms.
I'm really not sure what to do or if theres anything I can do. I feel like sex should be more pleasurable and not cause me so much trouble. If anyone has advice or can relate I'd appreciate it. (link)
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It's only been a couple of weeks...I'm pretty sure you're not totally comfortable. Stress, insecurity, all of that plays part in sex. If you're thinking too much, if you're worrying about stuff too much.
I'm assuming you're fairly young? You don't even probably know yourself yet...and you're trying to now allow someone else to know you lol. It's a learning experience for both of you, relax...smoke a joint.
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