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16/f So I was recently broken up with by my boyfriend Jake who is now my best friend. I still do love him but I have gotten over the shock and most of the pain that I felt at first. I have accepted it. So I've been helping him because he really likes this girl who is bisexual and she likes Jake and this girl Jane. The problem is that she likes the other girl a lot more and things have been working out between them. So my best friend (Jake) is devastated. :/
So I saw a picture of Jane, and she's really cute. I mean, Jake knows her and talked to me about her and after seeing her pictures I'm thinking wow, I'll take her!! Ahaha. This has happened before. I liked a girl that my friend (another girl) was dating. So I guess I'm attracted to unavailable lesbians? It's weird, but wow I really want this girl. Could it be because bisexuality is so normal for me? Jake is bisexual and so is the girl that he likes...and I have other friends who are too. Any input is appreciated. Thanks! (link)
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Girls around your age (13-20, I'm 13) seem to have fantasies about same sex relationships. I have too. It's the hormones. They seem to be the cause of everything, huh? Anyway, talk to Jake. Since he's bisexual, he'll understand. Try to get to know this Jane. Once you do, tell her your feelings and who knows what will happen ;)? Maybe you'll kiss or something. If you feel that special spark, go for it. It might been your bisexual or lesbian. But if you don't, you still could be lesbian or bi but things with Jane weren't meant to be. Consider talking to your other bisexual friends about your feelings and get their input and not just a 13 year old girl confused about sexuality. And try this last thing.... Imagine you hooking up with a guy. What are your thoughts? Now imagine you with a girl. Which was better? And now the simplest advice, follow your heart. Whatever you choose, your friends will support you. Good luck. -Paige Xxx
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I've realized that I sometimes am attracted to females. Like, I watch lesbian porn sometimes and I have a lot of gay friends. I know neither of those things "make you gay", but lately I've started having feelings for a friend of mine who is female. I'm not quite sure if I just want to hook up with her or if I truly have emotional feelings. What do I do? Is there even anything I should do? (Oh by the way, this friend is a pansexual.) (link)
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All women have lesbian fantasies. When you're going through puberty (if you are), your hormones are raging and it's common for girls to think more about the females then boys. I know I do. It might just be hormones or your bi-curious or bisexual. Now about your friend, think about your feelings first. Imagine you hooking up with her. Now imagine hooking up with a guy. Which seems better? If it was her, then there is the option of expermenting. Talk to her about your feelings. If she wants to kiss or have sex or something, do it. But don't do anything stupid. If you feel like its better then anything with a guy or if you feel that spark. Go for it. No girls are 100% straight or lesbian. Good luck. -Paige Xxx
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