Member Since: March 9, 2008
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I started dating jesse in september, and we broke up early febuary. we still talk and stuff, but only a little bit.
i still really like him. and that's my problem.
i'm still suffering from a broken heart because i'm 90% sure he doesn't like me anymore. my optomistic side is what the leftover 10% represents.
how can i hint to him that i like him?
i don't want to be so forward that i tell him literally that i still like him, but lightly suggest that i do.
ah, thanks so much in advance. (link)
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I know you don't want to hear this..but its not going to help you to tell him that you still like him. It will probably just end up hurting you even more. Its time to move on to someone else. Don't you want someone that goes after you? And gives you alot of attention? well there are plenty of guys out there who are willling to do that, why continue chasing after someone who isnt right for you?
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Okay, I've never really engaged in sex until my senior year started in August. Since then, I've just been sleeping around. I would say that I've slept with at least 15-16 guys since August. Why all of the sudden am I so promiscuous? (link)
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Okay...so the person below me is an idiot.
You are not a slut.
I think that the reason you have been sleeping with so many guys lately is because you want to feel some sort of acceptance, and that you feel like its the only thing you have to offer. ITS NOT. Trust me you have so many more things to offer...and plus do you really want to keep offering something like that to people you dont even know? You could get pregnant/std's. That would ruin your life. So first thing you need to do is to stop sleeping around. You may already have to reputation but once you stop, people will eventually stop talking about it and guys will stop trying to take advantage of you.
I want the next time you engage in sex, to be with someone that you really like or love, someone that you trust, and someone that doesn't have a bad character, someone who likes you for you and not for your looks, and of course that you have been dating for a while.
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Ok
I am always tiredd
And I eat more then I ever have
I am sad when I get home, but I am the same around all my friends
I cut, not all the time, but sometimes
I don't talk to anyone
I have some suicidal thoughts
I don't talk to anyone, like everr
My grades are slipping
I have NO self confidence and I feel like a burden to everyone
IS this depression?
I don't know and I don't want to tell anyone...uunless I know for sure or have a little better idea
Thanks (link)
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Okay so this sounds almost exactly how I used to be lol.
You turn to food because its something that you can turn to to feel good even if its just for a little bit. When you are around your friends, you feel good about yourself cause you have fun and are comfortable with them. I bet you don't talk to anybody because its an unsafe territory, and your afraid of getting judged. The cutting things sounds like your trying to get someones attention, because when you cut, its not because you actually want to go through with killing yourself right?
What you have is technically depression, but its more of a self esteem issue. One thing you can do is ask each of your really good friends 3 things that they really like about you. After you do this, write it down on peices of paper in ur favorite colors, and tape it on the wall in a place where you will see it every day. Then think about how your friends see you, and that is something you would want to portray to others all the time right? Once you believe that you are as great as your friends say you are, you will start to act confidently towards other people and actually feel good about yourself. Also another thing you can do is find something that has always really interested you, research it or just get information on it and make it a hobby, do this hobby daily and it might make you happier because you will be excited about it.
You can go to the doctor if you want to, but anti-depressants never really solve things they just hinder it more and plus anti-depressants have been known to lead to increased suicidal thoughts. In order to get over this you have to gradually build up self esteem. The best doctor to go to would be a therapist he/she could help you find the underlying reasons why you feel this way.
The things I told you to try are just some of the things I tried to help myself out when I was in your position, it might not work for you but its worth a try. So if it doesn't work dont give up, there are plenty of other things you can try.
I really hope I helped
and if you would like to talk to me more about this just ask :D
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