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Member Since: August 29, 2009
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Last Update: August 29, 2009
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lately me and my gf have started getting physical and it takes too long for me to get off last time we tried she was giving me head and it felt so good but i couldnt cum she tried for about 45 mins after that i had to get myself the rest of the way to climax so that she could swallow in the end she likes it. but it took about an hour and a half. arnt guys supposed to get off alot easier. i just dont want to have our sex life drag on bcuz of this is there anything i could do to cum faster? (link)
hello... this is my advice... look at how into it your girlfriend is ... consentrate relax ... or could just think of porn for a little bit ... just make sure ur girlfriend doesnt find out ... or you could try foreplaying more ...


Ok so in high school I was never really a social person...I had like 3 close friends and then I would hang out with people but it would be through those 3 friends somehow...

Senior year there was some drama and I'm no longer friends with them. So I feel like I have noone anymore. I always see groups of girls out on girls night or they'll show up at parties together and I feel like I need something like that.

I've been out of school for a few years now, I took off time to work some...and now I'm starting community college next week.

I need some tips to make some friends in college....

What I can see being a problem is I don't have anything to invite people along to...like most people can say "hey me and my friend *** are gonna go out for coffee after class you wanna come along?" and I can't say that to try and meet people....

I don't really know how to go about it because those 3 really close friends I had I was friends with since middle school...I haven't made friends in a long time and I'm lost...

I know this seems stupid and I feel like a total loner asking this question....but I don't want to have nothing to do on saturday night but work anymore. (link)
just be really friendly ...


Hey so I have been crushing on this guy forever and I gave him head at a party and ever since then we talk randomly and are friends with the same ppl but we never got together like that again. Recently I saw him at another party and he called and texted me asking if I was comin. And I ended up giving him a blow job again but he smokes so much weed that he has trouble getting hard and so he never came. Now I find out he told my friend that it was bad head and he didn't enjoy it at all and he had blue balls and I'm so embaressed and I don't know what to think! He'll never get with me again and not that I want to, just it's so embaressing. (link)
hello.. well here's my advice ... i've been giving my boyfriend blow jobs and he seems to reaally really really enjoy them so here are some tips .... 1. never suck to hard 2. watch your teeth 3. use your tongue to play with his shaft 4. deep throat 5. look and act really into it 6.use your hand to "extend" your mouth... now practice this tips with a hotter guy... and you'll get ur reputation back ;)


hi im 25/f and from England i have never asked anyone for help before and i think its about time i did.(sorry if its too long)
i have been in a relationship now for 6 years but for the last 5 months i have been through hell, it all started when i had a massive argument with my folks. myself and my other half were living with them as we had no where else to go, he moved out as he does not get on with my folks at all we have even been declined by them to get married! due to the argument my folks kicked me out of their house so i had to find somewhere to live and quick, luckily my partners boss had a shared house that i could move into with my 2 dogs and 2 cats. so i moved in there the very same day, it was going fine but due to myself not working i was able to get housing benefits so i did from the house, the landlord changed his mind and demanded i commit fraud by getting the benefits from his house in a totally different area but live in the house still. i declined to do this as i have to much to loose if i got caught so he evicted me, i have taken him to a solicitors but due to myself getting evicted i have had to sleep on the streets and rely on people i have just met to allow me and my animals to sleep in their houses (i know a lot of people but i don't have anyone that you can call a friend!) due to no one being able to help me anymore in the area i went to my partners but as he lives in a bedsit i could not keep the animals and stay there i have had to give all my animals up which breaks my heart as each one of those represents a miscarriage i have had! i am now living with my partner in secret so i have to stay in his room when he is not here. due to everything that has gone on i have gone down in the spiral of depression i cant sleep at night, i have lost weight and gone down 3 dress sizes in just under 2 months, i cant eat, i don't want to socialize, i am drinking more, i keep the curtains shut sit in a corner and stare into space all day and i am seriously thinking of suicide. my partner is really worried about me as i keep on going in to a depressive coma state but i cant come clean about everything to him as it will break his heart. i have been a self harming depressant before and got addicted to anti depressants, i don't no if i should go back on to them but my partner does not want me to he says i can fight through it with him. but anytime i see a train i think if it will be easier to jump in front of it or overdose or just go for a walk and never return?! what should i do if i don't do anything soon i think im going to do something stupid and end up in a mental hospital or worse a coffin. so should i go to the doctors, commit suicide, confess everything to my other half , or just see if it passes? can anyone help me please (link)
hello... i read your story and it does seem sad ... well this is the advice i can give you ... its seems to me that you love your boyfriend you even call him your other half ... well boyfriends are supposed to be there for you no matter what ... if he really loves you he will help you get thru this ... i think you should tell him ... it seems to me like you should seek support from him ...you dont have to go thru this alone ... don't think of suicide ... its dumb and you will only hurt your other half ... think about him and how sad he will be if you leave him ... now think about your self ... think what you could potentially be ... i know life is hard but dont give up ever ... people around you need you even if you dont notice it ...keep fighting look for a job like crazy until you get one ... start off at a fast food place and work your way up =]


So I just got to college about 13 hours ago... Im about 4 hours from home and I feel so depressed. I have never felt this way before and I just want to go home. I don't have the strength to do anything. I miss everyone. I feel empty I know no one here and it just hurts!! I have been crying ever since my mom went back home!!! what to do? (link)
hello... um the only real advice i can give you is that ... remember NOTHING is worth YOUR precious tears ... NOTHING and NO ONE.... i have no clue how you feel so i know you think i probably have no right to say anything ... but the truth is there is more to life than you think... it has been proven that the people around us make up our moods .. so hangout with happy people =] they will make you happy =]




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