Gender: Female
Age: 22
Member Since: March 11, 2015
Answers: 3
Last Update: March 11, 2015
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If you are wondering why a 22 year old is asking about love and I know I should be patient. Some background info, my last relationship was for just under two years. I work seven days a week and I am a full time student. Long story short she said she was raped on Christmas, I was very suspicious but I did trust her and did my best to support her. Not even 5 months later I went to surprise her(an hour and a half away) with a nice weekend planned. She said she was staying at a friends house. That night she cheated on me again. Now we are not together and I don't talk to her, but I loved the feeling of being wanted, more then a one night stand, more then a "fling". Now any female I'd consider I get flustered and make a fool of myself. I want to meet new people and get out of this slump, I just need someone to point me in the right direction (link)
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Hey there!
You sound like a great gentleman, since I noticed you used words like "trust" and "support" when describing what you were giving to your relationship. That's exactly what a true relationship consists of and I can tell you want a real, true relationship.
I feel it's very important for you to know exactly what you're looking for, what's important to you and what you just will not put up with.
I, myself am also 22, female, and I agree it's hard to find a real relationship along with true love. I was also in a relationship earlier for four years. I learned it's extremely important to recognize who you are as a person, what you are willing to give your significant other and what you will expect in return, which is what you absolutely deserve!
I agree it is tough meeting new people, but that's the only way you will eventually connect with the right person which will lead you both to become comfortable and familiar with eachother. And before you know it you will find it, you will find love.
Trust me you will not find it if you are looking, but it will come along and find you at the right time.
My best suggestion would be to focus on yourself at this time, you're a great person willing to open up your warm heart, and you deserve the best, not just anything you can find.
I'll be wishing the best for you, hope you can learn to love yourself while you are single which will lead to someone loving you for that.
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It isn't convenient for me to go to the gym & I am having trouble sticking to a workout routine. I thought maybe it would be easier to stick to a video guide? Looking for suggestions. Workouts that don't exceed around 30 minutes? Is that possible? (link)
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Starting slow at your own pace is what will work best for you. Take a walk for as long as you can handle, whether it's 10 minutes or 40 minutes, as often as you can, whether it's once every two weeks or every day. As you continue push yourself as much as you're capable of. Your next walk try to push yourself from a 15 minute walk to a 30 minute walk, go from walking once a week to twice a week.
Walking was an example, but if that's not your kind of activity try activities such as biking, jumproping, jumpingjacks.
Even a few push ups or sit ups, and then pushing yourself to more.
I know it can be hard to motivate yourself to a workout routine but just think about yourself and how much you deserve to stick to a workout routine for the better and keep yourself healthy.
I wish you the absolute best and will be curious to hear what you decide on your routine. Best of luck!
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*** I'm so sorry that this is a little bit of reading, but please read. I am so confused. ***
Okay, so I realize this is sort of a weird question, but I need advice on if I should do this or not. It'll sound weird at first, but please bare with me.
A little background about me; I'm 15, in my first year of highschool. I have extreme anxiety and social anxiety (Which explains why I'm even asking this question in the first place).
Now for the question. I can't decide if I should make a personal instagram account. I am in a "special" private program at school (Due to the anxiety), and I have absolutely no friends at all. I only go outside once a week for school. Yes, I know it's depressing, but I'm at a tough point in my life that I'm currently trying to get cured for. Anyways, I don't know if I should make a personal instagram account and here is why; I am afraid of someone stealing my pictures and impersonating me. I am also afraid because I was bullied in elementary school and a little in junior high. I'm afraid of getting bullied on there too or something. I know, I know.
I'm still thinking about it. I wouldn't post any pictures of me at all (At ALL) except for my profile picture. I would follow old friends and stuff like that. That may sound awkward but yeah. Should I? I'd really just post things I'm interested in or whatever if that makes sense. Please help me make a decision, I'm so stumped. (link)
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Hey there beautiful! I completely agree with Elize, in going for it! Making a move and creating an instagram will help you to socialize and interact with others with similar interests. I believe this would be a great way for you to be open minded and spend time taking photos of things that matter to you, that will attract others who enjoy your photos. Creating an instagram will reveal your character and what you are all about! I think it is a great idea for you to not post photos of yourself if you are worried about them being stolen or being copied. Sounds to me like you absolutely want to create an instagram profile for yourself, or else you wouldn't have brought it up in the first place. Just think about if you decide to not create an instagram, you will always be wondering "what if" I had created an instagram. Whatever you decide to do, you deserve to open up and be yourself.
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