HEY EVERYONE!!! OK,SO I GUESS YOU WANT TO KNOW A LITTLE ABOUT ME AND MY COLUMN. WELL I AM SEVENTEEN YEARS OLD AND I HAVE DEALT WITH MORE THAN MOST PEOPLE MY AGE. I LIKE TO HELP PEOPLE AND BELIEVE THAT THIS IS ONE WAYS TO DO SO.
THIS COLUMN WILL BE TO GIVE ADVICE TO ANYONE THAT ASKS. YOU CAN ASK ADVICE ON ABOUT PRETTY MUCH ANYTHING AND I WILL DO MY BEST TO HELP. BUT PLEASE ALWAYS KEEP IN MIND THAT I AM NOT PERFECT AND THAT WHEN YOU TAKE MY ADVICE IT IS AT YOUR OWN RISK. I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST AND HOPE THAT I CAN HELP YOU ONE WAY OR ANOTHER.
TRULY,
NORET
Gender: Female
Occupation: STUDENT
Age: 17
Member Since: January 2, 2005
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i realli realli like this girl and she realli likes me (says her friends) but she has a "popular" boyfriend! what should i do! (link)
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Well, first you should try to win her over. Show her how much you like her, through your actions. Then you should let her know how you feel in a sincere and unique way. When you tell her, please do not pressure her to drop the other guy but rather sound like you will continue liking her and hope that she'll like you back (eventually). And if she doesn't drop the other guy immidiately continue to treat her in an special way, because then she might begin comparing both of you and notice that you are the better choice. Last of all, never let anyone play you, so if it's been more than two weeks of you together and she still does not drop the other guy the drop her (no matter what she says). Your self respect should come first.
Truly,
Noret
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O.K. This is sad and I have no idea what to do. My best friend, Haley, wants to kill herself. She's never met her dad and her 200 pound 7 year old brother gets all the attention and her mom's a total slut. She gets books about death and she's writing letters to the devil and God. I don't know what to do about her. She's threatened me that she will kill herself and it scares me that she will. I don't know what to say or think about this. We met last year but got really close. She's two years older than me and I could really use advice on what to tell her. I need help, or my friend does. Please don't be sarcastic about this because I'm scared and you will only make it worse by replying rusely. Anyone who answers nicely, I'll love you forever.
~~~Kayla~~~ (link)
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Please at no point think that I´m trying to be mean or anything, but I´m going to be as truthful as I can with you. First and above all you must be a friend to her, be there at all times so she can have a shoulder to cry on, advice her the best you can, and show her (tell her) how important she is to you. Many times people in her situatin just need some guidance and lots lots of love. (I know I know you probably think this are obvious things but you´d be amazed at how often people forget to do things like these for their closest friends.) Then if her LIFE and well being matter more to you than loosing her friendship, you should contact your school counselor and tell him/her what you´ve written here. The counselor will know how to act....for her best.
Last of all, know that you can do only your best which is to love her tons and aid her to the best of your ability. Best of luck and know that your friend is ery lucky to have you.
Truly,
Noret
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Ive noticed in the last few months I am always tired when I wake up. And its not because lack of sleep because no matter how early i go to sleep or how late i wake up or vice versa I always feel the same. Any suggestions? What can I do to make myself feel better and not be so tired in the morning? (link)
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Well as you´ve probably noticed being tired is a common problem that has many posible solutions. First of all I would recommend that you try to find out if you are tossing and turning at night, because then the problem is your mattress. If that isn´t the problem then I advice you to drink more water (since water gives you energy), exercise more, and go to bed & wake up every day at the same times. I guess it would also be good idea for you to decide upon sleeping a certain amount of time (between 7-9hrs depending on your activity level during the day.)
I hope this helps,
Noret
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