Gender: Female
Age: 14
Member Since: December 14, 2010
Answers: 1
Last Update: December 29, 2010
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okay, this is gonna be a long story, but please help me out.
i'm 16/f, and i have a boyfriend of 7 months. however, there's this boy. let's call him trevor. trevor is one of my close friends, and i used to like him, A LOT. for about two years, all i cared about was him. he does little things like rub my back and put his hand on my leg when we're together now, and it drives me insane. i cared so much about him for 2 whole years, but he never seemed to notice. now that i have a boyfriend, he gives me all the attention in the world. he texts me first, he tells me he loves me (in a friend kind of way), he gave me his sweatshirt to wear and keep. we have such a long history of this kind of stuff, it seems like it's all coming to the surface now. i never had any closure with him. i feel like in order to get over him completely, i have to kiss him. ya know, get it out of my system so i can focus completely on my boyfriend. has anyone ever been in this situation before? if so, how did it end up working out? ahh! (link)
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this type of thing happened to me but the roles were reversed. my best friend was in love with me, he never made any moves, never even told me(everyone else did). after three years things were normal again. we are even closer.
i suggest letting things blow over. kissing him is not a good idea. you current boyfriend may not like that and it could cause things to be akward between you too
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