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I'm 16 and I'm a female my boyfriend just turned 29 and we have been together almost 7 month on the 18th and we are both Christians so we believe and agree that we shouldnt have sex til we are married but my friends hate him because he is white and is 29 they try to tear us apart and sometimes they tell me that its Either them that I let go of or my boyfriend but I don't know what to do?! By the way my boyfriend promised me and my mother that he isn't in this relationship to get in my pants that he wants to wait until marriage... what do I do? How do I keep them both?! (link)
they aren't friends unless they agree with you're choices and if they leave you that's them not you...you're life you're story don't let someone else write it :)


How can a man have sex with another man (link)
by sticking his dick into there ass holes


I've seen everyone I ever cared about vanish away. I've got my heartbreake plenty of times. This time God will not have enough time to save his troubled Human. It's all to late, I dont have time to wait for a reply. If he really exsist he will show me something at the railway station. We will see my dear friend if he really cares about everyone. You are my proof I challenged him to just show me a TINY FUCKING BIT OF SIGN WHY I SHOULDN'T END IT. (link)
because he brought you here for a reason... god has a lot of people on wait too... it is sad that he did not reach my grandpa in time but did put him out of his misery...but we all have a reason to be here.. please don't make him regret it


ok so my guy friend weve been friends for quite a while now and i never knew that he really likes me how do i go about this ok well to start off with hes like lets say 29 or so and im like 19 so do i tell him i like him too that we can go out or do i just tell him i want him as a friend and thats it help me please (link)
you can as long as your parents approve cause they can report it as child molesting


My boyfriend keeps telling me that he is masturbating and this bothers me. We are having a long distance relationship and its a 2 year relationship. We've met several times over the summer vacations but when he tells me he is masturbating I get saddened and angry. He knows that I get mad but he doesn't do anything. He also watches porn which makes me sad and angry. He knows how I feel but yet he continues. (link)
break up with him ! we girls have our rights to tell them what annoys us and if they don't listen we wont care and we should just leave they had a chance and if they are going to be annoying let them be sorry


Hi,I'm Jazz 14/f.I'm very confused as of right now.
There's this guy named Andrew.He's two years older than me,and also my brother's best friend's.Every since I first met him last year,I've had a crush on him.I would try to go where I knew he would be.
But now,it's different since we all go to the same school.
But my two bestfriend's know I had a crush on him.
But I noticed that he was always finding reasons to talk to me,or help me.But i didn't think anythimng of it,I just thought he was being nice since I was his bestfriend's little sister.
So two months ago,the crush I had on him went away.I just viewed him as a friend.
But this month,he told my bestfriend's he likes me,so they told me.
He writes me letters every other day now,telling me how beautiful and sweet i am.
He even told me he was always trying to talk to me or help me because he liked me since we first met.
He gets nervous when he's around me,and when I hug him,he get's red and blushes.
He says he gets butterflies when I'm around,and my friends keep telling me to go out with him.
But I feel bad,because he's writing me these nice letters telling me how beautiful and perfect I am,but when I write back all I can he=onestly say is he's sweet and nice,because I don't have a crush on him.
I sort of feel like I'm leading him on,which is exactly what I don't want to do.
I want to tell him that he should forget about me,and move on,and he should stop writing me,but I don't know if i should.
Should I?
How do I explain to him that I got over that crush on him earlier this year?
Any help right about now would do me good.

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just say "Andrew i know you like me but i got over you..i don't want to hurt your feelings trust me .. maby if you had told me earlier i would have said yes but,you were just too late... but there are other girls you will fall in love with so dont be upset,i still have felligs for you but not the ones i used to .."


I really need advice from someone who knows a lot about pets, please I don't want any answers that are just "good guesses". Two weeks ago, I adopted a ten week old kitten. I also have owned an indoor rabbit for a year, but he is almost two years old. Both animals are male. The cat fights with the rabbit, which is a given, as cats are predatory animals. I cannot tell how the rabbit feels about the cat. I keep the rabbit locked in his cage when I am not home, and when I sleep. When I let the rabbit out he does his mostly normal business, and the kitten tries to play with him, pawing and pouncing at him. The rabbit does run, but not to his cage, just a couple feet away. Sometimes the rabbit will approach the cat. I’m not sure if this is out of curiosity or playfulness, but once the rabbit approaches the kitten it’s game time. To me, the kitten seems too aggressive with the rabbit. So I have the following questions which are all related to the cat and the rabbit. Also, I do plan on getting the cat fixed and declawed for the safety of my rabbit.

How do I know when I need to step in and interfere with their fights and teach the kitten that playing is okay, just not too rough?

How can I bond the cat and the rabbit?

The cat has been entering the rabbit’s cage anytime I am not in the room, even if just for a second, the rabbit doesn’t seem to mind, but I read online that the cat should not enter his territory. The rabbit doesn’t seem to mind the company, but his feelings are kind of hard to read. Is this okay?

Sorry if this is too long, I wanted to make sure that I included enough information.
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you need to step in when the bunny starts getting terribly hurt and teach the cat that playing with the bunny is okay , but that starting to claw him is too playful and that playing with him is okay as long as there is no hurting each other


Hi Dayra well my story is kinda like yours MY friend and me were making out till her sister found out of course we were naked and she wanted me to lick her pussy and later we parted because i told her i am done am i LESBIAN? (link)
no,most girls just have sexual activity because with a guy they could get prego (pregnant) and if you were with other girls but still liked guys your just bisexual :) wich is not bad


13/f
Soo, me and my boyfriend have been dating almost 2 weeks now. And he said he loved me. so i said it back...and i mean it,he said it to me first. And i know he means it. but theres a girl. she is crazy obsessed with him. and shes making up rumors about me, and saying that he shouldnt be wiff me. And that shes gonna fight me for him. i took boxing for 3 years now, and i still box...but i dont like using boxing for defense, its just my passion...and it feels like shes breaking us apart...what do i do? And how do i get her to stop? (link)
tell her that if he did not choose her that means he does not like her and that in her world he wont be the most cute or good guy,and if she keeps on with her sh*t tell her that he would love it if she just backs off




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