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E-mail: ahmeena.mack@yahoo.com
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Location: United States
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Age: 13
Member Since: March 1, 2014
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Hello..why I am so exited for sex I am 18yrs girl and I am single ..i dont want to do sex but sometimes I cant control I really want do naturely I feel it ...what is this tell me ..and I am virgin ... (link)
You shouldn't feel wierd or nothing.You just havent expirienced it yet.Be sure your ready to change your life because you can only give it up once.Wait for the right guy.


I just got off my period it was a light period so I've been scared I'm pregnant . Now I just got off my period and I've been having brown stuff in my underwear not alot but what do you think . Could I be pregnant (link)
Well your askinq the right question! Have you been sexually active? Have you been protected? You should definatly wait a while & see if you have any mood swings& if you miss your next period(: If you do miss it take a pregnancy test!


So I have a friend that has been through a lot. Lost his mother, promptly gained inheritance and lost it just as quickly, and to top it all off he has a girlfriend who is emotionally abusive and is also bed ridden. He has so many responsibilities piling up he has been neglecting his duties with the house. I mean it seems like he is losing more grasp on reality and is not being able to provide the appropriate care for himself let alone his GF. I want to have a talk with him and convince him that he might not be able to care for her properly and with that might end up losing her ( death or otherwise) and I am afraid he won't listen to what I am telling him. What should I do? (link)
Sometimes when people go threw alot they think the best way out,is too be alone! Your being a great friend by being worried.You should have a serious talk with him face to face alone! Tell him how you feel & listen to everything he say's.Always keep in mind that he's hurting inside.


I'm trying to wrap my head around this. I've read why men have affairs, and this man does not fall into any category. He's in his 50's, I'm in my 40's, so it's not like I'm some young, hot, woman. In fact, I am not attractive at all (even worse with out clothes on). He loves his wife, he's told me many times, he would never leave her. I'm not exciting, I am not confident and have very low self-esteem, so, it's not like I bring anything to the table. He and his wife still have an active sex life, she doesn't make him mad, they have two wonderful sons and are the perfect couple. He says he has never cheated on his wife and feels guilty doing it (which I know I'm going to hear in the comments, he's lying, but for sake of argument, assume he is telling the truth). Yet, we've met a few times for sex, talked and spent the day together, so you can't say it was just for the sex. He and his wife still go out, he talks fondly of her, they don't have any financial problems. It's not like he wants to leave her. I would think, if a man is going to have an affair, he would reach for the sky, not for some loser. (link)
If he cheats on his wife,why wouldnt he cheat on you? if he tells you he loves you he's lying! Well yeah he's having an affair & you should feel very dumb for falling for a guy like him(: he played yo life sweety.


I started a new medication and I am just not feeling it anymore. :( Is there any way to get that drive, that desire back without going off the medicine that is probably keeping me alive? (link)
You should talk to your doctor about getting new medication.But,your just not use to it & need some time to Re-Evaluate yourself.


So this has been going on for a while now but has gotten increasingly worse lately. I can't wake up on time. I set two alarms on different devices each with a snooze button to go off about 5 minutes later. I usually wake up late and don't remember at all hearing or turning off either alarm but according to my sister I do it, and also don't even budge when shaken to wake me up.

I also wake up at random times and do things in my sleep that I am unaware of. My sister recorded a video of my randomly springing out of bed or, going over to her bed and shaking her or even waking up and swearing out of nowhere. My parents told me I used to sleep walk but I don't walk that far if I happen to do it.

What is wrong? Why do I fall into this almost unconscious like sleep that not even two blaring alarms and a sister shaking me make me awake? And why do I sleep walk or do drastic things in my sleep without knowing? (link)
Well your one person who loves to sleep(: you must be getting lots of rest & having good dreams;* well you need to go to sleep earlier than usual maybe bout an hour or 30 minutes earlier & see if that changes anything.


A few days ago I went to sleep over my grandmothers house (Im going to sound like a crazy person right now, but whatever), Around 5 am I was laying on her couch and I started to hear somebody talk to me in my head. There was something I was feeling guilty about that time and that voice told me that he forgave me and that it was alright and I thought it was God at first. But after a while that voice became really annoying and when I started to doubt if it was God it became really scary. I would feel really heavy and started to hear more voices talking. I was in total panic because I had heard scary stories about people being possessed and killing others. And I was really afraid that my body was possessed too and would move out of itself. I suddenly started thinking of knives and all that and my family who was sleeping. I started clinging to the couch and keep holding on to it and tried to keep still. And when my leg suddenly began to spasm I freaked out. It felt like something jumped through my body and I got scared. And well at the end I started crying.

I then prayed to Jesus and asked if he could please help me get rid of the voices. When I stopped praying I heard one voice say 'Im still here' and I went on with praying. Then I called my mom to come get me because I was too scared and my grandma wouldn't wake up , when my mom came I got into the car and I heard angry growling & demon voices. I was so scared that I didn't tell my mom cause she wouldn't believe me. They've gotten worse.

I've been hearing voices on and off since I was 10 yrs old but now they're worse. I see shadows (not people's shadows) all of the time.

I probably sound like a lunatic but I swear this story is true. I have no reason to make this up since I don't gain anything from making myself look like Im crazy. I keep hearing scary demonic voices and I'm scared. I hear angry screaming and weird noises. I even saw a cloud of black smoke floating by me when I was in the living room. When I close my eyes sometimes I heard angry demonic voice too and I know I'm not mentally ill.
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You need to pray & ask for god to help you.Read a bible!


Hi! I'm 14 and I'm Catholic, so naturally I am going to get confirmed. However, it seems that all of my friends are getting confirmed this year while I am getting confirmed next year and I am envious of them. They go to different churches, but even so. It bugs me that I have to wait another year when my friends are getting confirmed this year, if not already confirmed. Is this normal to get confirmed at 15? In my opinion, this is a very late age to be confirmed since the Church says that seven is the age of reason, and my parents were both confirmed at the age of 12. Am I being mad for no reason ( this makes me SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO mad to the point where I curse out the lady, of course not to her face)? All answers are appreciated. Thank you! (link)
You have a good question! It's not your fault that your mad about being Confirmed.You have great reason's why you seem ready.Maybe,you should talk to your parents or Church members about your choice.Understand,where they are coming from at the same time.If it does'nt work maybe you will have to wait another year! Don't follow your friends,Be your own person.




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