Member Since: December 15, 2007
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im 14 years old, f. and i weigh 155lbs.
i was wondering if this would work, if i eat like 200calories for breakfast, 100calories for lunch, then go to the gym, and burn like 500-800 calories, then go eat dinner,.
would i lose weight that way, i really need to lose it quickly, and i want to keep it off, and if this isint going to keep it off then i don't want to do it.
but i want to lose about 3-4 lbs a week, if possible. (link)
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you need to burn more calories then what you put in always. that doesnt mean eat some nasty big mac from mcdonalds that has 700 calories and go work out because it isnt good for your body. as long you give it the right foods your body will thank you. so before you know it, the body you wanted, will be given...but its a 50/50 thing here.
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Patty and I have been friends for many many years. More than most of you have been alive! When we are together we have a great time, or at least I think we are having a great time. It's a fact that we both have always led busy lives. It seems that if I didn't make an effort to nuture the friendship we'd probably talk or see each other very little. At one point I got tired of being the one to invite, and wait for an answer or wait for the phone calls that never came, so I backed off. I was getting mixed signals, and thought perhaps she wanted distance. From time to time I rekindle the friendship, only because I miss her and I miss the good times that we had, I do really enjoy our conversations and the company. I may be wrong, but I feel like Patty takes my friendship for granted. I may have allowed that because I don't like to sound childish or petty. I always accept whatever apology or excuse she has for not reciprocating, and tell her it's okay and that I understand. When the truth is, usually I don't understand. It's not like me to be rude or unforgiving, but the one-sidedness hurts me deeply. I have tried to discuss this with her, and it is obvious that she doesn't see it the way I do, and I have never wanted to put our friendship at risk of dissolving completely. Talking about it is really not an option here, because I know she will say what she is doing is not intentional, and maybe it isn't, but it still hurts. My question: Do I cut off all contact and move on with my life? Or should I just be a casual part time friend? Either way will hurt me, but I am hurting now, so what is the difference? (link)
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im in a friendship at the moment where im going through the same exact thing.
you really got to ask yourself if you love her and what your going through will be worth it in the long run. see with me when i get that one-sidedness, yes it does hurt me just as deeply, but ive come to realize its just who she is and there wont be many friends who can be what me and you are to them. We may never know what that love feels like for us because we are their angels. someone who is always gonna be there, to forgive right at that moment you hear sorry, to make them happy when the world around them isnt.
i dont know if your the same but to me i couldnt see my world without her and i get a feeling that sometimes she could.
there were times i would confront her about our friendship and where its going and why i cant get that attention that i think i deserve. the moments i would do that she would get frustrated with me and tell me im crazy and she cant take how emotional i get and ask if i know her at all.
so yes i know where your coming from totally, but if she makes you happy more overall dont loss it...because she may need you more than she knows and it will only be until its gone when she realizes what you did for her and what you put up with that some other friend couldnt stand.
its just called love and some are blessed with it more then others.
if you told her already how it makes you feel then she will always give you that same answer, that she doesnt see it the same way you do but i see it exactly how you do because ive been through it.
i also hurt at this moment you do because i asked her who she would cry over if she lost them?? i was told today the only people she would cry over is her husband and her boy...so it makes me think im something she will get over and move on with...so that breaks my heart because its not how i would feel if i was asked that question. she is and will always be a part of my life no matter if shes not physically in it anymore...
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