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I am a 30 year old female, I've been working at my new job for about a month now, it's been very awkward because ppl would barely talk to me, and pretty much treat me like the new girl... Some ppl kinda just started talking to me, and last night I made the worst mistake of my life... I was in an accident last night, where i turned to quickly and side swiped a vehicle who happened to be one of my new co workers, I was tired after working a double and I turned to quickly and it just so happened to be a co worker... I can't eat or sleep im so depressed... I feel horrible, her car just had a little scratches on it and mines had the damage.., but I feel bad, I have to return to work... After doing that and I just want to quit, but I have to pay bills... I feel the lowest ever... What should I do? (link)
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Helloo,
Firstly, calm down, your not a screw up. it was an accident and you didn't mean for it to happen. Your co worker is not hurt and neither are you which is the main thing.
When you next go to work, apologise to your co worker and offer to have all the bills for the damage on her car to be sent to you. If she gets mad and then apologise again and let her know just how sorry you are.
But until then, always stay positive and remember that it could've been much worse and that everything happens for a reason
I Hope this helps xxx
Lauren
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Hi. Okay, so I have other friends too besides my bestie of besties. So, I have Jamie, my #1 sister, but I also have like 2 other best friends. But it's SOOOO hard for me to hang out with my other friends because Jamje always gets butt hurt and pissed off. Then she ignores me and says stuff like "maybe they should be your new best friend" or "you never hang out with me anymore" when I'm like, ALWAYS with her... it's been going on for quite a while and I just want to have fun with everyone without losing friends along the way... HELP!!! (link)
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Hellooo,
Ok, so firstly, You really need to talk to Jamie. A similar thing happened to me last year and I let it get waaayy out of hand, so find a free lunchtime or break, or arrange to meet somewhere with her asap.
Make sure you choose somewhere quite quiet and private such as at the bottom of the school field, to do the talking.
Then, you need to tell her how you feel, in the nicest way possible. Explain to her that its normal to have more than one friend and that she is still your best friend forever, no matter what. Explain to her how it makes you feel when she ignores you and reassure her that if she ever feels upset then she can always talk to you.
Try to Make the conversation as relaxed as possible and if all goes well, then it should end with a hug.
I hope this helps xxx
Lauren
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