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im a girl, 3rd in high school ,so i really like my classmate (boy)...i started to have feelings for him in septembe (beginning of school year) and now is end of june(end of my school year) and yesterday i finally confessed to him how i feel about him.. i did it by giving him a note in which i wrote that i like him eg..i felt so relieved giving him that note..and i thought he would text me to say something about it, some reaction, but he didnt..also today at school he said nothing to me ...Why?...i just need to know how he feels about it...today at school, group of our classmates including me and the classmate i like were in the hall, sitting around table (he was sitting on the opposite side from me)and talking , they started talking about what traits do they like about girl /boy...and THAT classmate was talking about what traits does he like about girl..then it was my turn..so i started talking and THAT classmate before my other classmate said i could look into his eyes while saying the traits...and why i was telling traits THAT classmate winked at me..so he probably read the note ...but why didnt he said anything to me about it ..what does he have to say about it ?...why did he wink at me ? . should i say something to him tomorrow at school ? i just need to know how he feels about it before the end of school year which is the next wednesday...i cant spend whole holiday(months) thinking how he feels (link)
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Hm... is he a player? That sounds kind of strange that he winked at you. Because if he didn't like you, he probably wouldn't do that. But if he did like you, he would probably talk to you about the note... right? Personally, if I were you, I wouldn't wanna seem desperate so I wouldn't bring it up... but if he doesn't bring it up by tomorrow, then just talk to him. Because like you said, you don't want to spend time wondering if you never ask.
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i'm from india. I do have the most uncaring parents in the world. They don't care about my emotions. My father always keeps snooping around my things and then there are the questions like, "who's this boy?" or "why do you have so many male friends?" and they really frustrate me. My mom never supports me; they both expect me to spend my days in studies and STUDIES ONLY. If i've to buy a top for myself, its mom who's going to choose the color and design and everything. If i've to wear earrings, its she who'll decide if i should wear gold rings or diamond tops. My opinion is never asked(and my parents are not the coolest ppl around). They want me to cut off all connections with my friends. They are too busy planning for my future to care for my present. And the worst thing is that i'm constantly told that they are spending a lot of money on me, and if it would have been any other person, i would have probably starved. if i ask for something(which i don't anymore) i'm shown the monthly bill. even if they give it to me, i'm not spared of some heart-wrenching comments.
i've got no siblings or anyone i can share my feelings with. my parents pick up fights with me all the time. i keep telling myself that there will be a time when i will be on my own, but its too long (I'm just 14).
i feel suffocated all the time and sometimes i just wish that the ground would open and swallow me up. (link)
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I feel like this too. My parents say that they are just "strcit" but there is a fine line between being strict and just simply lashing out at your child and forbidding everything. Please try and wait. I know it's frustrating, but there's nothing you could really do about it. If anything, they just care about your future a lot and that's why they want you to focus on your studies. They don't want you to buy too many things because they want to teach you to save money. Please hold on and try to get through this. I know 4 years may seem like a long time, but it really isn't. It'll fly by.
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I've been singing for a couple of years now, mainly in church and at a couple of weddings every now and then. Over the years I can tell I've gotten a lot better from when I first started and recently I've had this idea to start my own YouTube channel. The problem is, everytime I actually get ready to create it, I start having doubts. I'm not sure if its confidence I'm lacking or not. I'll be so sure about it one day and the next I'll feel like it's a stupid idea and I shouldn't even bother. I really want to try and see how it'll turn out, but at the moment I'm not so sure. What should I do? (link)
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I feel ya. Listen, I want to be a singer, and posting singing videos on my YouTube is very difficult to do... and I've been doing YouTube for 3 years now.
Trust me -- there will be haters, but there will also be people who love you and your singing. Sure you might lack confidence now, but the more thumbs up you get, the better your self esteem will be :)
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