I'm very well experienced Iv been through a lot in life especially with family and relationships Iv been through all sorts of things. I'm just that kind of person you can tell anything to and I won't judge you
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Im 25 and my boyfriend is 24.
We've been dating for a couple months now and things have been great except one issue - his ex girlfriend. She will not stop texting/calling him even after he has told her that he's moved on. I was uncomfortable with him still speaking with her and he told me he understood and would take care of it.
Well last night his phone was on my night stand and I see his phone lighting up when he was in the bathroom. I peeked over and there was a text from his dad, and a missed call and text from his ex. His ex texts him dumb questions its like she just finds a reason to text him. But I didn't say anything when he came back in the room about her texting him. I just said you're phone was blowing up. He looked at it and I just said jeeze who was blowing up your phone and he said my dad. I said your dad must have something important to tell you if he's sending you so many messages (messing around) he just laughed and said yeah my dad sends me stupid stuff.
He never once mentioned that his ex tried contacting him. This really upset me it's like hes trying to hide it from me. I was sick to my stomach all night about it. I don't know how to bring this up to him without him knowing that I was peeking at his phone seeing who texted him. I even gave him a chance to tell me too.
About a week ago his ex came up in a convo and I simply said whens the last time she's tried contacting you? He said today actually she asked if my neighbor had any football tickets for sale. He said he simply replied no. So that time he actually told me when she texted him.
I don't know if he didn't tell me she texted him last night because he didn't want me to get upset or what but it's still not ok that he blatantly lied to my face. How can I bring this up? (link)
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Your boyfriends ex can't accept the fact that he's over her and she's Jelous of you by her texting him and making an excuse to talk to him probably means she still has feelings for him and I don't think you should worry about your boyfriend not mentioning it , he probably didn't mention it because he doesn't want to worry you or make you paranoid everytime she texts him
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