Member Since: May 24, 2012
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Last Update: June 4, 2012
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I am 39 and recently separated after a long marriage that was unhappy for many years. About a month ago I went on Plenty of Fish and met a man that I really liked. We met in person and it was wonderful. We had instant chemistry. For 2 weeks we texted or talked every day. We saw each other five times. We slept together. I asked him if he was seeing anyone else and he said no. Then I went to add him as a friend on Facebook... His profile did not have privacy settings so I was able to look at his pics. He had a recent picture posted in which he made a comment about coming back there with someone special. There was a comment on it (written that day) that said "can't wait. xoxo" from a woman. I texted him to inquire if he was in fact seeing someone else as well. He phoned me and told me it was a woman that he had been talking to online and that he hadn't met her in person. He then proceeded to tell me that he really likes me but that our relationship was getting too serious too fast. He said he wasn't ready for that as he had too much stress in his life right now. I was devastated. I tried to keep up the friendship with some texts for a few days, but it seemed one-sided. So, I waited... No word from him at all. Then I sent him a message on Facebook in which I poured out my heart. He hasn't replied. I can't stop thinking about him. I feel like I fell in love with this man. I keep thinking about the things he said, the way he acted while we were together. It felt so perfect. I just can't get over him. I am so depressed! (link)
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When you say slept with him you mean sex right?
Because it sounds like to me he didn't want a relationship, maybe just some women he can hang around with and maybe have sex once and then.
Rule #1 never sleep with a guy without him being committed to a relationship, if that is what you want.
He obviously just played along with the lovegames till he slept with you, if he did.
The "It's going so fast" Is a nice way for him to say he's not interested.
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I am 13 years old. I have a friend that is 27 years old. In a month or less I will be moving to California . My friend is supposed to be moving with us. BUT a few days ago he had told me he's good at making out and I should try it with him. And I'm like huh ? And then he told me how he liked me and stuff. But my mom had just asked 3 days before, if Dustin (the friend) was weird or if he made me feel uncomfortable,etc. (basically if he was a pervert). And I'm like no , because I didn't know yet and she's like okay . Because he claims to be gay also BTW. And he has this crappy job with crappy people and lives in a small crappy hotel too. And IDK if I should tell my mom 'cause I would be the reason his life sucks and I don't think I'm in the place to take away dreams just to feel more comfortable. Help me! Should I tell or not?
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He is obviously old enough to take care of yourself, so you should never feel uncomfortable around him. Meaning he sounds like a pervert and wants you to feel guilty about not doing anything with him.
And trust me from 1st hand If he is really gay he would not pursue to make out with you or talk sexually with you.
And no offense but a 27 year old should not be a "friend" with a 13 year old, that sounds very shady to me.
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