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Location: Redlands, CA
Occupation: Businessman
Age: 28
Member Since: December 7, 2004
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okay ... i had a crush on this guy , and would always flirt and stuff , but after he started liking me , i stopped liking him .It's kinda like now i completely dislike him , i hate his confused look , i hate the way he tries to make me laugh ... i just don't like him !! Why is this happening to me ? (link)
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maybe youre like me.
you always want something that you cant have. but when you can have it, you dont want it anymore.
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i have my ex and i havent talked to him in 4 years i breakup was hard and sudden but i dont want to be his enemy forever i want us to be at least friends and i dont know if i should talk to him or just leave him alone and i think this girl has a HUGE crush on him and i dont want to get in it and mess it up i really need some advice i dont know what to do
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leave him alone.
let him have some closure before you try to rekindle the friendship. then when things start to get back to normal, you can initiate the small talk.
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my bf is hidding behind being shy!
we have a son that was just born on halloween and he still hasnt got a job! i need help and he agreed to help, right now my parents are paying for everything and i dont know how to make him get a job, hes 18 years old...the only job hes ever has i got for him he didnt have to work for it so he doesnt know how to get one and ive tried to teach him but still doesnt go and get a job...i dont know what to do...how can i make him get a job but still be nice about it. (link)
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Tell him that your parents are gonna stop paying for him in a month. So that will get him to hurry and get a job.
if not... then he's a dead beat father. and you should really evaluate your relationship. if he truly loves you, then he needs to show that he loves you... not just in bed... but by responsiblities.
if he doesnt step up to the plate... you really should consider dropping him like a bad habit. at least that will force him to pay up child support and then he'll really be forced to get a job.
remember one thing... your priorities have completely changed since you gave birth. your number one priority is now your son and everything else falls behind your son. and having a good responsible father as a role model is very important for you son.
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Posted Monday December 06 2004, 9:44 pm
I need some help on this one...
My dad has been really depressed lately and i dont know what to do about it. He keeps on tlaking about how he is going to kill himself and everything and how there is no God and God just wants to be left alone. He also gets mad at stupid things and jsut tells me that i am worthless and that i will turn out to be just a worthless as he is no matter how hard i try. I try and put it aside and remember that it isnt my problem or just try to walk away or ask him to stop talking like that, but he doesnt listen, or he just comes back at me 10 times worse! I would file something on him or try to get him help, but he is my only parent/ family left thats in this country that i know...what do i do?
~Lost
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im very sorry to hear about your father. just remember that you need to maintain your composure first of all. just remember that there is a purpose for your exsistence. and maybe if you can find a purpopse for you fathers existence his depression might wither away. try to make some goals with your father and you guys can achieve them together.
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