Member Since: August 24, 2008
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Last Update: August 25, 2008
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I have been dating a guy for two years almost. I have a nine year old son and Im a working professional. My goals are high and I also attend online college to finish my paralegal degree. My boyfriend lived with his parents until two years ago and has worked several jobs since we met. Why am I with this guy?? He is great with my son and has a big heart. I've always been looking for the loving man that will sit at home with me on Friday nights and I have met him. We never have the money to go out or on vacation. I do not have a ring yet?? He works jobs to get by. We still live in a apartment and I drive a new car and his is lucky to still be running. I'm 28 and I have never been materialistic, but I would like to have more??? I'm confused, please help. (link)
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That's a tough one. Nice guy, no drive. I know that the fact that he is great with your son makes it an even toughewr decision whether to continue the relationship or not. But I think the fact that you are so driven and he is not will, ultimately, ruin the relationship. Do you respect your boyfriend? If you don't, there is your answer. You are young and you had a child young...there is nothing wrong with you wanting to go out on weekends or on vacation. You might have missed a lot of things to become a mom (all worth it of course!!) I think you need to have a heart to heart with him and find out what his goals are. You say you don't have a ring--do you want to marry this man? Does he have the same ideas? Do you want more children? There is a lot to consider. You could also do nothing and let this run it's course but I think you can't do that...and maybe you already have plenty of doubts since you did take the time to write for advice.
Remember, there is nothing wrong with being alone...and you already have someone to spend Friday nights at home with--your son! You have a lot going on with being a mom, working, going to school...you should feel very proud for all you do!
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i work at a fast food resaurant and im around grease and heat all day and it makes my face super greasy as well. and im starting to break out, is there any product, a cleaser, creme, or anything, i can put on my face before work to prevent breakouts?
thankyou!
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I don't know of anything you can put on to prevent acne but I think the most important thing you can do is make sure to keep your face as clean as possible. I like to use face wipes a few times a day. You can even get these at the dollar store and carry them in your pocket, folded in a little plastic bag if you need to. Anything too harsh will only dry your skin and possible cause more acne.
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