Member Since: March 27, 2008
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Last Update: March 27, 2008
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i cant stand being with my bestfriend anymore we've been close for like 9years now, since forever but she totally pisses me off very so often! like i can never forgive her for throwing things in my face while we were younger, also! she always like the guy i like, last year i told her i like this guy, then she went after him! but he didn't like her, he said she was too weird and not his type, the whole school knows about it, and yeah we have some really good times, but others shes a complete total female dog! i can't stand her gusts! i let her stay at my house after school every day because she lives far away and her mom picks her up at like 8 or 9pm, then a few months ago she told me she can just come and go as she pleases, its her decision that she could stay or not at my house, she acts as if my house is her house and she can come and go as she pleases, i convinced my parents to let her stay, my parents said if it makes me happy, so shes here, but she thinks shes always right about everything, so when she started to go to my school she became worst of who she was! she took all my friends away from me, dyed her hair like 10times to get attentions from others, and she disses only about EVERY guy i like, its soo annoying, i cant tell her to just leave after 9 years, im so confussed, she lies to everyone about her, making everyone at my school like completely hate me and choose her over me, im hurt realy bad of what shes done, and she makes her mother more miserable then anyone, she threatens to kill her self of she doesnt get what she wants, my parents dont like her at all, since we were younger my parents dont like her because she was a bad influence, i got soo sick of my friends staying over for sleep overs and everything and say how great or wonder she is,...she came over once to my house over the weekends and totally liked like bestfriends with my friends, and laughed at me,...she thinks she knows everything about me, well shes wrong i hate her, but i dont wanna loose her, advice please? (link)
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ok this might sound mean but the only way because she needs it blunt and to the point and beating around the bush. tell her what bugs you and all that then let her know what she can do too tone it down a little. but never hate a person ... no matter how much they do stupid stuff or mean things. trust me didnt work out. you can't hate your friend otherwise whats the point of trying to be friends with her right? anyway just be nice and let her know. but from what i hear on that report is that you should just stop being friends with her. because all she is going to do is diss and lie about you later. it can get worse and if she threatens to kill herself tell her that if she does that none of it had to do with you and that she kills herself is what she did to herself not others. i doubt she would kill herself and if she does none of it is your fault for she chose that way and think of it as an enlightment from being lied about. ask me any more or tell me if i am wrong about this advice.
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