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well, i just broke up with my boyfriend, but while we were dating, we'd obv. make out. now the way i'm used to making out is opening my mouth, sliding my tongue in, and (this is pretty awkward, haha), and then closing it and repeating it. but he'd get soo into it, that he'd just keep his mouth open and just wiggled his tongue back and forth? is that right? because i've never done it like that before, and i didn't find it very interesting or fun. i wouldn't want to make out with him because of that either, and i don't know if i'm doing it wrong, or if he is. i do know that people have different ways of doign it, i'm just confused on the matter. would be be considered bad at making out, or what?
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tons of people make out different ways.
there is really no right way.
but typically make out really is you open your mouth/lips and you and the other person massage tounges.. haha
you arent doing it wrong but its just more to it than that?
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Firstly, I'm more after an opinion than advice. But any advice for this situation would be greatly appreciated.
Okay, so this is my first relationship. And I like to think of myself as not one who gets jealous easily. We're both open about people we find attractive and he's even said things to me people say I should feel jealous about, but I don't. Bottom line is, I think...well hope I don't get jealous easily. But I'm scared this is just jealousy talking in this situation.
I'm trying to keep this as vague as possible, because I'm terrified my friend mentioned or my boyfriend may stumble across this.
But basically, my friend hooked up with this guy. Everytime we hang out, she's usually all over him. Everyone comments on it. However lately she hasn't been. She has however, been hanging around my boyfriend a lot. I've been fine with it, afterall I'm around him a lot and she's my best friend. Plus they're friends too, so it's okay.
Anyway, today she was going to play a trick on this guy we don't like (Long story, he derserves it) she was going to be a slut, and then when he thinks he had a chance reject him. He is part of our group.
So she sluts herself up, BUT everytime me and my boyfriend pushed her to this guy she'd make an excuse. And the weird thing is that really made me WTF was as soon as the guy she was going to reject left, she was eager to approach him but was like "Oh, he's gone. Whoops....too late. Damn! Oh well..." she wasn't that disappointed.
Usually, I wouldn't care. But there are a few factors to that. My boyfriend showed her how to slut herself up. She seemed to enjoy it a bit too much...then because she slutted herself up, he paid extra attention to her (No comments about this, he apologised later on to me and some of it was joking around. However this is another reason why I don't think I'm a jealous person, he's like this.) and she seemed to enjoy the attention, A LOT.
Combine that with her doing a tiny flirting, and staying slutty even after the guy left until my boyfriend told her to cover up, it's starting to make me wonder if I'm just being a paranoid jealous girlfriend, or if she was hitting on him.
From these signs, do you think she was hitting on him, or do you think I'm just being jealous?
I'm NOT going to approach her about it, afterall some people flirt and not realise it. Hell, I'm guilty of that. But if she does it more and more, I will.
My boyfriend didn't mention anything after she left, but he did seem to do a lot of reassuring that I'm prettier than her, which is a sign he knew she was hitting on him. (link)
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She was really flirting with him but you are trying to make yourself believe she wasnt.
and you do have a right to be jealous of that because one thats your best friend doing that and two you wouldnt be going out with him if you didnt mind that kind of behavior (that would just be a friendship)
your not the "jealous type" when something that major is happening. you have a great reason to be jealous especially since she is your best friend. just dont go above and beyond and start being paranoid about it.
all girls do flirt and sometimes arent aware of it but when you are that flirtatious you are doing it intentionally.
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Sometimes when my boyfriend and i are just sitting around he will go up my shirt some like around my back. How do i get him to go where i want him to? (link)
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sometimes you just have to lead him to where you want him to go.
like just pick up his hand and show him or inch it to the place you want. if you want to do it "smoothly" or whatever just start rubbing his hand and lead him.
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I want to get my tongue pierced. But Im scared it my hurt. I have my navel...but that didnt hurt at all. I heard you cant talk right after...and your only aloud to drink not eat...also that it burns even when you eat spicy food it all this true...oh yeah and about not being able to talk right...how long will that last? (link)
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my friend has her tounge pierced and the next day she was talking but it sounds like you have a lisp and your tounge will get swollen.
so you can pretty much talk.
you might get a blister on the roof of your mouth at first because of the ball.
and you shouldnt eat.
and i'm sure after while when you eat spicy foods it wont burn because you won't have any scabs or anything.
hope i helped.
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