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So I'm still hurting over this guy that I dated like three months ago... we dated for seven months, he broke my heart and I'm still not like over it! I wanna move on so bad, to find a new guy. But the first guy I liked I just stopeed being interested in. I had a spree of liking all sorts of guys scattered around, intertwining into eachother for about two months. I kind of got involved with one guy, but he's bad news so I gave up. This last guy I really liked amd had been texting for a few weeks but he all of the sudden stopped texting me and I heard he has a thing with this other girl... it could not be true tho IDK. After the end of all the guys, I always find myself wanting my ex back. And it hurts so bad... I don't understand. I suddenly just start missing him like crazy. I cry for about two hours and I can't sleep. He really hurt me... I just don't know what to do. My ex was bad for me. Bad bad bad. I can't go back to him. he likes this new girl and I can't help but compare her to me. She has to be better than me in some way right? Or he'd want me and not her. He's hasn't ever asked to have me back. There;s just a lot of hurt still left over from that relationship. Things he's tried to apologize for but I didn't let him. I just want to be happy. I'm so sick of being sad over him. He hurt me and I can't seem no matter how hard I try to forget it. Its been three months! we only dated for seven. Every other five munutes I think about him, and I swear to God, that is not an exageration. Not one tiny bit. It doesn't help that I see him every day at school. with the new girl. PLEASE help me. I am fifteen female (link)
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The relationship "experts" say that it takes the same amount of time to get over a failed relationship as you put into it. So if you dated for 7 months then it will likely take 7 months to get over him. My daughter just got over her boyfriend of one year about two weeks ago. She had been broken up with him for one year exactly. She thought she would never get over him and she was so sad and hurt. But, she did get over him and now she's doing even better. Now she's glad that she moved on and she can look back and see that it really was for the best. Good luck
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My husband left his facebook logged in and i looked at the messages. He sent messages to some woman he plays poker with. the first two were innocent. She said yeah I made my bed i have to lie in it. My husband responded with. "next time you make your bed and lie in it..invite me over". I yelled at him, told him i would leave. He plays poker with her on mondays and said he doesnt like her "that way" and was just flirting.. REALLY? he is very apologetic and sweet to me. We have been married 8 months. I am very attractive and this woman is the exact opposite of me . What the hell is going on!! where do I go from here. By the wasy he is a wonderful husband otherwise. Thanks..Kim (link)
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Well, what's he supposed to say. That he wants to have sex with her. Did you expect him to tell you the truth? I've been married for 9 years. We've had our share of problems. Remember, your husband was the half of your couple that started the mistrust. Now, only he can fix this. Talk is cheap and anyone can say I'm sorry. He will have to change something in his relationship with the other woman in order to gain your trust. He has given you reason to question him and he has given you reason to make demands of him. The longevity of your marriage depends on how much each person is willing to sacrifice. If one of you isn't willing to sacrifice EVERYONE else in the world for the other, then chances are that a marriage won't last. Good Luck
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