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Q: Okay, so there's this really cute guy that I really like. Yesterday, I found out that he likes me. Naturally, I'm stunned. He starts holding my hand, and rubbing my shoulders, and nibbling my ear, but something inside me told him to stop. Now he doesn't like me anymore because I told him to stop. I don't get it. That's what I dreamed of. That's what I had wanted, and I told him to stop! Geez, I'm all confused. Was it wrong? Is it all for the best? Am I right? Am I crazy
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You're not crazy. You're also not right or wrong. Only you know why you told him to stop. Maybe, subconsciously, you know you aren't ready for a relationship or maybe you're scared of your feelings. Talk to the guy and let him know how you feel once you've cleared your head. Tell him you weren't brushing him off but are confused. Maybe if you talk it over, you will work it out.
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Q: so tell me how weird i am if I am horny ALL the time. morning noon and night and i'm not doing anything to be so? Ok so i'm not always horny but like 75% of the damn, i am. I'm a fucking girl... i shouldn't be this horny all the time, should I? god, anything gets to me. Guitars, voices, songs. I'm weird. sometimes even the thought of guys in panties hahaha
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Haha there's absolutely nothing wrong with that, its completely natural. I have an incredibly high sex drive (luckily so does my boyfriend) and I'm a girl too. Why should women be any less sexual than men? The point is you're not weird, and you have nothing to worry about. If all else fails buy a vibrator
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Q: im 14. ive got a major problem
i went out with this kid for 8 mons and we shared everything together, i mean the relationship was perfect. He was always there for me and he didn't care what other people thought. i loved that about him. But when his crazy mother put an end to our relationship he didn't even wanna try to make it work. Now hes in Florida playing basketball and i did a no no with his brother. But i regret it because the only reason i did it was that he reminded me so much of my boyfriend. I cant get over my boyfriend and i think hes well over me but its only been maybe a week...
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Maybe I'm wrong but I think it may be time to give up. I'm sure you could understand his feelings if he chose not to forgive you for what you did with his brother, but it sounds like the reletionship was over before you did that. Infidelity is just a sign that something else is wrong with a relationship, so talk to him, apologise for what you've done, but if he doesn't take you back don't be too shocked. If there's even a chance you guys can stay friends, you should take it now by speaking to him. If your relationship was as good as you said it was, he might be willing to stay your friend. Either way, what's meant to happen will happen, and if you guys are meant to get back together, you will.
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Q: there's this guy that i've been good friends with since the 2nd grade. but this year we've gotten closer (prob. cause he was dating my best friend for a while) now i seem to be feeling stronger feelings for him. more then friendship. it was a month after i started feeling this way when i told him how i felt. he gave me the "i'd like us to be friends" line. of course, i broke out in tears. and for about two weeks, i cried myself to sleep every night. we still talk normally but idk, i guess i really thought he might actually feel the same. i'm 14/f and i'd like to know what i should do. should i get over him? should i try some things to attract him? -- if so, what? idk...please help me.
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I know how hard it is to find out someone doesn't feel the same way about you. It can be quite easy to convince yourself that they're attracted to you, and it can take a long time to recover when you find out they're not. This is why it might be difficult for you to accept that if he doesn't feel this way now, you can't force him to. But what you can do is attempt to save your friendship and try to move on. I know its a cliche but there are plenty of fish in the sea, and wasting your time on someone who's not interested will destroy you. I should know, because I spent 2 years obsessing over a guy who didn't love me. Anyway, my point is, keep this guy as a friend and wait for the one who does feel the same way. You can't change his mind for him.
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Q: Over the weekend I did a really stupid thing. I've been best friends with this guy for about 5 years now and nothing has every happened romantically between us. It crossed my mind a few times but nothing ever came of it. Anyways over the weekend, we slept together. he has a girlfriend and i feel really bad. i never really had feelings for him but now i do and he told his girlfriend about it and he wants to try to stay with her. We haven't really talked about why it happened and whether we have feelings for each other or not. I want to talk to him about it but i want to bring it up without looking like im clingy and all "where is this going" kind of annoying.
I really don't know what to do. Any advice would help.
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the only reason you have feelings for him now is because you slept with him. he has a girl, and he wants to stay with her you should try and talk to him but if you two were drinking then its a shame that happened and try not to let mess up your friendship
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Q: Alright, my friend is so happy with her boyfriend they have been together for 5 years and are getting engaged... well whenever i hang out with them i kind of get jealous and sad because the way they act. i wanna be loved too.... and i love this one guy, not my friends boyfriend another guy. and he acts like he likes me I mean holding my hand kissing me... ect. But... it makes me want my guy, even more, when I am with my friend and her boyfriend... I miss him so much.. but I don't wanna make my friend mad what should I do??
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Be happy for your friend, she would be happy for you. Yoyr time will come and who knows maybe when its turn she'll be alone.
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Q: hey is the thing i have a really pretty face but i am kinda chunky. and when i am driving around in my truck all these guys look at me and wave etc. and then at school i don't get many looks. like 2day there was this one guy that goes 2 my school that i don't think ever really notices me ( and i kinda like him now) but when i was going 2 my friend's house he saw me and wave and smiled and stared as i went by. the thing is since i kinda like him so i talk 2 him in school cuz idk if he realizes i am the same person or not, or just wait for him 2 talks 2 me and how can i get more guys 2 like me for who i am and not my body? thanks alot for any help
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If he waves to you, I'd go up and say hi to him and see what happens from there. If he is a truly nice person, your looks will not matter because he will be amazed with your inner beauty, which is all that matters anyways
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Q: i just burned myself on the oven rack in my oven. its blistering now, will i have a scar? it was 450 degrees to let you know...any advice?
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I think as long as you iced it right away, you should be fine, but your skin tone will depend on things as well. To help reduce the scar, I'd clean it and put Neosporin Plus on it and leave it alone. That's helped me
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Q: i was wondering i know you're supposed to take the pregnancy test after your expected period but... what if you have sex like...i was supposed to start my period on the 27th and i had sex on the 26th and i have skipped my period so when should i take the test ??
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If you were susposed to start on the 27th and you had sex on the 26th, I'd wait about a week and half. Did you use protection or are you on birth control? That can make a huge differnece. Or if you are worried about being late, that can also make a difference.
If you didn't use protection & are worried, go to the doctor and ask about the "Morning After Pill" that will help prevent getting pregnant.
Like I said, wait about a week. Good luck & let me know how it goes
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Q: My nana gave me a real gold and pearl necklace for my 17th birthday. I was wondering is it safe to wear it in the shower or will it ruin the pearls?
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Personally, I wouldn't wear it in there. I only wear my body jewelery in the shower and 2 rings, but I'm always checking to make sure they are ok. If you want to clean them however, for as funny as it sounds, use toothpaste and a toothbrush LOL
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Q: Have you ever pierced your belly button by yourself? Like how did you do it I mean like all the steps from start to finish, even the small ones lol? Today, I want to pierce my belly button by myself but I'm afraid that I'm gonna do something wrong like piercing it too thin like I didn't use the skin. Can someone please tell me how you pierced your belly button by yourself? Thanks
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Well... while I don't really reccoment piercing it by yourself, if you are set on doing it yourself, go here http://www.bmezine.com/pierce/diyp.html They have lots of info on how to do it yourself. Good luck with it and remember, don't touch it after you do it, infections suck!!
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Q: My friend told me something not to tell anyone. I accidentally told someone though, like it slipped out. She won't talk to me and she told me to tell the person I was kidding and I was just wondering, so I did and now shes like "you're crazy, you're insane" crap like that and it's really annoying but I don't know how to deal with it, because we were really good friends, and I would think she would have been more mature about something like that. Anyway, my question is what should i do about it, there is no way she is gonna let me have my say and tell her what happened and she won't even talk to me. How should I handle this?
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I'm guessing that this happened during school... so seeing as you already tried to talk to her and she wouldn't listen to you...then you should write her a note...explaining to her what happened...and have a friend deliever it to her...if she was really your friend...then she will listen to you...or at least understand where you are coming from
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Q: i cant focus- anyone have any good ideas how to??
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just Try to keep your find on one thing..like say you were having trouble consentrating in class because people around you were goofing around or jhuzz talking loudly...just try to tune them out...or tell them to quite down a little because you are trying to pay attention.
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Q: 14/F. I have to get orthodontic braces in a few weeks and I have a few questions about them. I will rate. Do they hurt? What will happen if I chew gum with them? What color bands would look good with brown hair and brown eyes? Thanks.
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well, they hurt for the first 2 or 3 days but you get used to them quickly. make sure to stock up on apple sauce and pudding! if you chew gum, the colored bands will come off, dont chew! i'd say go with lighter colors, but NEVER go with clear or white. your food will make them turn differnet colors! hope i helped
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Q: okay, i really need some help. One of my best friends is dating a 24-year-old!!! and she is ONLY 16. They only talk on the phone though and see each other maybe once a month at most. It's totally unhealthy.. I'm really scared for her because every time they do see each other, they've gone further and further, sexually. They've only made out, he's sucked her boobs, he's fingered her, and they've had "dry sex" or w/e.. This has been going on for about 4 months now.. Ive tried several times talking to her about it, but I just dont know what to do anymore.. please help
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try talking to her again and tell her how much you care about her and that you dont want anything to happen to her. if this doest work, just tell her you want nothing to do with her if she is going to act the way she is acting with a 24 year old.
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Q: Well you see i always end up being friends with this girl and I don't know if i like her until its too late. I always get scared i will lose them as a friend. I had an experience were i lost my ex gf and a friend o what should i do?
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You should take the initiative and ask her out jusy specify before you go out with her that you will remain friends no matter what happens! I hope i helped ask me again anytime!
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Q: there's this guy who im friends with but i think i might like him and several ppl think he likes me and we do stuff as friends and ppl think that we are really out on a date. What should I do?
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Well it depends do you want to be seen as going out on a date with him. If so, then you should probably give him some hints that you like him. I am sure he will come around and ask you out if many people think that he likes you. If you dont want to be seen with him as a date, just say to those people who think that you are going on a date. Just clarify them and say look we are just friends and we like to do things together, I dont see whats so wrong with that. Something along the lines of that so just stand up to those people. I hope i helped. Ask me more questions anytime!
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Q: Ok well i have this friend and she is one of my best friends and i went out with her exboyfriend because she didnt like him anymore(i think she was ok with that) but when i went out with him she gave me a hard time and every time she was with us when we hung out she always flirted with him and i told her that but she denied it and then we broke up and when we did she said she hated him for what he did to me and she cussed him out and stuff but then when she saw him she flirted with him and she said she didnt like him but i always thought she did and them she went over to his house and he is friends with my other friend and i was at his house but i dont know if they were lying becuase they got annoyed with my friend but they said they were making out but she won't tell me if it is true and i still kind of like him but i am not sure and i dont know what all they have done. Any Advice?
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Well,your friend does not seem like a really good friend. She lies or does not tell the COMPLETE truth. I would say if you want to be friends with her still then sit down and talk to her about what happened. Say i dont like you not telling me the truth. Friends dont do this to each other. Im pretty sre that will work. If you dont feel like you want to be her friend anymore then say i dont want to be your friend anymore for the way you treated me. I hoped i helped. ask again anytime!
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Q: ok well, this guy at school. And i meet him at the library with some friends cuz him and a friend of mine was working on their research papers so we sat with them 2. well I and him talked. but then i told my friend David that is his friend that i liked this guy and now he doesn't know even remember who i am. what should i do causes i really like this guy
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Well what i think you should do is find him one day and introduce yourself to him. Then start to hang out with him.Then you both can build a relationship off of that.i hope i helped. ask anything anytime.
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Q: ok well its me again, my friend asked him because he was on aim, but he was away and he STILL is. She never sees him at school, so i still don't know how i can find out how he feels about me. Could you please help me again??
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well ask somebody else. try to get a guy to ask him. it migfht work and if he likes you tell one of your girl firends to tell him that you like him too. If this does not work out then ask again. i have plenty of advice and you can ask me anytime!
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bio
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The name is Jessica, I'm 30 years old. I'm married to the love of my life, and I am a mother to a beautiful little angel. I'm outgoing, fun to be around, love my fam and close friends. I'm a blogger, singer, bookworm, college grad, & stay at home mom.
*what I give advice on*
teen sexuality - health - college - school - fashion - relationships - friendships - depression - mental health (anything basically)
So feel free to ask anything related to what i've given above.
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Location: New Jersey Member Since: February 14, 2018 Answers: 117 Last Update: March 2, 2018 Visitors: 7719
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