ask Los2



read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators




Member Since: January 30, 2018
Answers: 5
Last Update: June 13, 2018
Visitors: 1058


14 year old female. For as long as I can remember, my mom has always spoken over and interrupted me. If we're having anything from a heated argument to a simple conversation, she'll listen to like half my sentence then start talking. Once, we were arguing and I was going to say something when she interrupted by screaming at me. When I claimed she interrupted, she replied that she "knew what I was going to say" but she had the completely wrong idea.

Worse than that, if someone asks me a question she'll answer for me whether it's 'what are you doing in school?' Or 'how are you?' Even my dad has pointed this out, and she does this to my two siblings as well. From the moment I was born, she has forced me to do things I don't want to do and decided I would be a lawyer. I don't want to be a lawyer, I want a creative carreer, and it pisses me off that she constantly tries to push back on my hobbies just because it doesn't fit what she wanted to be but failed at. I've tried telling her this several times and she claims that since she's my mother she can do this.

In addition, she's annoying in other ways. First of all, I remember I used to be suicidal (not anymore, have gotten phsyciatric help). I tried telling her I was depressed, and she told me to get over it and how she's had it worse-in fact, she yelled at me to get the FUCK over it. Then later on she invades my privacy by reading my journal and goes all 'why didn't you tell me you were suicidal?????' And guilt trips me through the whole healing process with 'you do NOT get to put me through hell and back and then...' everytime I do something she doesn't like.

Once she caught me with a girlfriend and figured out I like girls. I specifically told her I want to come out to the family on my time, on my own terms, especially since I was 13 and wasn't sure if I was gay or bi yet (or if liking girls was just a phase, for that matter) but she takes it upon herself to out me as gay to everyone she knows.

She complains I don't have a relationship with her. But she expects me to jump whenever she wants to do something while never doing anything I want to do. I'll give an example: I rented the 2012 Les Mis movie and invited her to watch it with me since Les Mis is my favorite musical. She decides to be on her phone the whole time. I try to talk about anything I like and she nods me off.

I honestly don't know what to do anymore. I'm sick of being spoken over and guilt tripped over everything. She keeps claiming she wants to improve our relationship, but doesn't wanna do anything other than be all "I'm the mother so shut up" how do I deal with this? (link)
Maybe your mums just frustrated and feels a little like she's undervalued. And maybe overwhelmed too I know they mcan be mean but their only human and maybe she's trying to get her needs meet swell. Be patient with her and don't harass her and maybe she will respond. Be kind too.


What do I do if my girlfriend wants an abortion but I want to keep the baby? (link)
Id tell her that she'd regret killing an unborn baby for the rest of her life because in god's eyes it is murder.
That you will want the baby is a big deal too maybe she could consider adoption? I'm speaking from experience btw HUGE deal


My 12 year old son acquired a pair of police issue handcuffs as a Christmas present from his uncle (who works at a security supply store). I don't know what gave him the idea (maybe he saw a clip from an old sitcom online?), but he persuaded his 10 year old sister to spend a day cuffed to him. I didn't protest as they were both willing and I figured they'd both be sick of it within a couple hours. But I was wrong. They remained cuffed until bedtime, having a blast the entire time and without complaining once.

My oldest daughter (age 15) was as bemused by this as I was. When she was challenged by her little sister to try it before knocking it, she agreed to spend a day cuffed to her the following weekend. They asked me to hold the key and to not let them have it until the next morning, as they intended to try and last 24 hours together.

Unbelievably, they made it through the night and seemed to have enjoyed the experience. They even agreed to do it again sometime.

When I asked my oldest to explain the appeal of this to me, she said it was hard to explain. She guessed that it was because you really have to pay attention to the person who's attached to you and thus it's a real bonding experience, no pun intended.

She then said if I really wanted to understand, then the two of us should spend a day cuffed together sometime. I laughed at the time, but now I find myself considering the offer more and more, to the point of contemplating how we'd handle the bathroom issue and where we'd sleep if she wants to spend a full 24 hours together. Am I crazy for wanting to give this a shot? If it helps me bond with my daughter, what could it hurt? (link)
I guess one of you could be blindfolded or something when you go to the toilet.... If it's just at home why not?could be good for you and her


Last night I had a dream I was in a church and Jesus walked up to me. I started talking to him about dreams I've been having and how I feel about this one guy for so long. How in love with this guy I am. And Jesus finally answered the question I've been asking Him for SO long!

It's possible for Jesus to give you answers to your questions through dreams, right? (link)
Sure is!awesome😂😊


14, female. I've played with the ouija board countless times, having the worst experiences yet always being drawn back to the damned board.

It all started at a Halloween party. Me and my friend wanted to scare all the kids at the party by pretending to contact something demonic. God, if I only knew what would happen afterwards, I would have never touched the thing. We were playing outside, with the whole party watching, but the two of us being the only ones brave enough to play. It started out as planned, where we pretended we were talking to Satan. Then we revealed it was a joke, laughing hysterically at how they all fell for it. Then one of the kids wanted us to play for real, which we agreed to.

When we asked if anyone was there, noises from the woods near the kids house were being heard. It sounded like something was moving through the woods. After a while of nothing but strange noises, we were about to give up. I said something like "I bet demons don't even have the guts to play." That's when everything went south. I started seeing a shadow out of the corner of my eye, and everything around me began to slow down until I fell asleep. That's all I could remember, but when I woke up I was in the house and the rest of the party goers were batshit terrified. Apparently I was laughing hysterically to the point where I was starting to puke, and screaming in a man's voice,"I BET YOU THOUGHT YOU WERE SO FUNNY!"

When I went home, nothing was the same. I could hear footsteps and breathing when no one else was home, things would mysteriously fall over and technology would start acting up. In my dreams, I'd have nightmares about a black shadow coming to attack me and wake up at 3:00am on the dot every single time having a panic attack.

The second time I played I was in my grandmas house, upstairs where no one lives by myself. A similar thing kept happening where an entity claiming to have never been born was playing with me, and I wanted to stop. I kept trying to say goodbye, but it would always go to "no." Eventually I was like "fuck it" and put the planchette and board away, then went downstairs.

In that apartment is where the entity is at its strongest. Going up there I always feel uneasy and scared, and I see the black shadow right in front of me, not in the corner of my eye.

I played so many times for hours though it seemed like only minutes, and can't stop. I know it's bad and evil, but it's like an addiction. I even sold my board, though I keep feeling the need to create my own and continue playing. How do I stop this? (link)
Don't do it and don't let anyone else do it. If you have a board don't let anybody get the same experience by giving it away. There is dark ah$gf that you just don't want to know about. Ever. Say this prayer :our father in heaven hallowed be thy name thy kingdom come, thy will be done;on earth as it is in heaven, give is thirsty our daily bread and forgive me my trespasses and forgive those that trespassed against me. And lead me not into temptation,but deliver from the evil one, for yours is the power and glory for ever and ever amen.
O am serious don't go there girl, surround yourself with as much love as possible don't try to fight these battles you won't win! Just turn thither way. For Christa sake I get some spooky noises Tobit as soon as I do I say that prayer and there's no fear. Don't go therexxx




read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>

eXTReMe Tracker