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Gender: Female
Location: the beautiful cali!
Occupation: well im unfortunately a student still!
Age: 14
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Member Since: August 6, 2004
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Last Update: August 9, 2004
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hey i have these new black adn pink sneakers theyre mainly black but i was jus wonderin wut could i wear wit it cuz like i personally think it looks weird if im wearing shorts with it or a skirt with it i feel like i should b wearing pants with it all the tym... wut do u guys think? (link)
ooo i know those shoes! i have black and pink converse and i am IN LOVE with them! well mostly cuz black and pink are like my trademark colors cuz they are the victorias secret colors!! lol!! ok well i wear anything with them! i think that they are cute with anything! u just gotta get used to them!


Alright. I'm fourteen-years-old and I'm a Freshman, this year, in High School; just to give you an idea of where I am, as far as maturing goes.

No one has ever really spoken to me about health and growing. And I suppose I'll end up learning about this in Sex Ed. but I figured I would get advice, now, anyways.

This afternoon, I started noticing a soreness on the sides and tops of my breasts. I'm not entirely sure what this soreness means or whether or not it's a good thing so that's where I need help.

Is it normal to have sore breasts? Do you get 'growing pains' as you mature, on your chest?

Thank you, in advance, for your help. (link)
yeah i THINK that is totally normal! dontcha worry bout it babe!


Ok well i was thinkin bout u kno havin sex widd my bf of ova 9 months but im only 13 almost 14 so i think have decided to wait for that big step u kno!! but ne wayz i wanna be able to do otha stuff wid him like give him a bj and like have him do stuff to me so should i??? and like wat kinda stuff???? thanx


* a curious george * (link)
omgosh! ok dear ur 13!!! WAY too young to be doing this kinda stuff! just think if u did go for it and then thats all he wanted from u and u 2 broke up and then he spread it around the school like what happened- i dont think you would want that reputation! just kiss for now and have fun dont feel like u have to rush into things!!


I have dark arm hair and I want to get rid of it b4 school starts(August 16)So plz does anyone know any ways to make my arm hair lighter like blonde? And do you know any ways to do it without going out and buying kits? Like is there anything at home I can use that you know will work? Plz help, my whole life ppl make fun of me and a couple other dark haired girls I know And I am Not just doing it for them its for myself b/c I am so embarrassed that I never wear short sleeve shirts which makes me hot... HELP ASAP!!! If possible answer b4 tomorrow plz and Thx! (link)
welll i wouldnt say Nair cuz that would look weird if u have like dark hair and then ur arm hair is like blonde that would be kinda freaky! nair just like gets rid of the hair for a while and its like lotion that u put on forlike 3 minutes then u wash it off and its completely gone!!


Okay..I just broke up w/ my ex like 2 days ago and we were together for about 4 months.I went to a party last night and i met this guy and hes a 16 (im 13) and we like kidna hooked up and now i feel really bad since i just broke up w/ my ex..But I like the guy i met and me and him like eachother and everything but like my ex still likes me a lot and I dono if i should just worry about my feelings or be nice and worry about me ex's!Cuz i like this new guy a lot and he wants to go out and stuff.i dono..PLEASE HELP! (link)
if its over-its over! u shouldnt have to worry about it cuz if u really like this guy then u should go for it!! i know u feel bad for ur ex and all...but maybe this will teach him how to just let go u know?


ok i know this guy that u can love so much but then hate..should i go with him or no? (link)
well there are 2 ways to think of it- he could be an incredible boyfriend who is loving and just the greatest guy out there-OR he could just be a perv and just want a peice of ass which seems like all guys want these days-i think u need to make a list of the pros and cons of this guy and think it through and see which one seems more reasonable


ok im like really addicted to smoking adn im only 13! and i need to quit cuz i play sports and i dont need to be all huffy puffy on the court please help me (link)
wow ummm...first off u shouldnt be smoking but to help your question just try ur hardest and when u try hard enough to get something it will happen...use self control and think before picking another one up...


i mostly like hip hop and rap..but what r some good cds to get..i need to buy some new ones. any1 have any good suggetions???? (link)
some good cd's are maroon 5,ashlee simpson, usher, dashboard confessional, good charlotte, and stuff kinda like or similar to that!


okay last week i posted a question about this guy "Brad"!! I went to his house and my friend and i slept over and so we talked a lot i made him laugh an awful lot!! i even brought up the "prom" next year, he said he might not go, i was about 2 say 2 him that i love 2 go with him ...but i was to afraid 2!1 Is flirtin with me?? And should i ask him 2 the prom??


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yes of course you should ask him to the prom!! why shouldnt u?! if he is a great guy and u think u would have fun with him then go for it!!=)




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