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no mum. dad with a mental illness. i wish to be a counsellor, or someone that works with disabled kids. i've been abused sexually, physically & mentally so i do know what its like to feel alone. if i could reach out to at least one person on here, it'd make me so happy. dont ever be afraid to speak up if someone is hurting you. i've been told that im a good listener & im good at giving advice. i hope i can help at least one person out.

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I had surgery a long time ago and I have this big embarrassing bald spot in the top of my head. It is very hard to hide and when I try to cover it up by pulling hair over it, it doesn't work. I've been teased at school cause kids think I'm bald headed but I just had surgery right there. Is there anything that will make hair grow right there?

http://www.ebay.com.au/sch/i.html?_trksid=p2050601.m570.l1313.TR0.TRC0.Xcaboki+&_nkw=caboki+&_sacat=0&_from=R40 you should check out the caboki product which is basically a bald spot hair concealer which has a load of positive feedback, i recommend looking on ebay first before ordering directly from the caboki site because most items on ebay are cheaper than the original price. if you cant afford a caboki or anything else, you should check this site out; http://www.universal-tao.com/article/urine_therapy.html i know urine isnt the most pleasant thing in the world but i remember reading this article about a lady that had cancer & lost all her hair, but she washed her hair with urine every day & now she has the most perfect long hair ever. anyway, dont listen to what people say about your bald spot, it happens to old people all the time, & eventually those bullies are going to grow old & lose some of their hair, so chin up, & good luck.

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What does cum mean?

basically, cum is another word for semen, which is a whitish/yellowish cream substance that blasts out of a guys dick when he has an orgasm.

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Female 16
The one thing I love the most is acting, I'd love to be a successful actress in the future, but it's my confidence. I find it easy to do anything in front of close friends, but when I'm faced with the whole world, my confidence goes down a tad bit. It doesn't stop me, but I panic and get myself worked up. I did Drama at school, I would say I was successful but my the fact that my confidence went down, it got the better of me. I used to go red a lot when I acted out a play, and I sometimes still do when I do things. I was just wondering if anyone had any advice tips, especially how to build my confidence up, thank you.

i've had anxiety for almost 2 years now, & the thing that helps me build my confidence is to just do something challenging every day. start small though, you dont want to throw yourself into the deep end. i also did public speaking courses which helped so much. basically, i just challenge myself every day with things im afraid to do. if you havent seen the movie yes man with jim carey, then i suggest you watch it. if you have, then i recommend trying daring things the way he does, its honestly life changing. good luck.

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Ive been feeling a little down lately and I just want to read a good book. One that I cant put down. I just finished my second year in college and its been extremly stressful and ive lost a few friends. So now that im done I just want a good pick me up or inspiring book. Have you read any? If you do recommend one to me can you tell me a bit about about the book in advance because I would like to buy it on my kindle and would like to make sure its a book that would interest me first before I spend the money. Haha. Thankyou !

http://www.wattpad.com/ is a site full of teenagers that write incredible touching stories. this site isnt just for teenagers, anybody can create or read stories. i know its not an actual book that you can hold, but this site is amazing. there are so many categories that you can choose from. i think you should take a chance on it because some stories on that site are so heart lifting. no money involved:').

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Hello everyone i am 13 and my acne have really came in. My pores are so greasey and oily. And when i bust one bump more come up. So please anyone what is the best methods or products is best for my face.

i believe home remedies are more trustworthy than million dollar products that will more than likely agitate your acne even more. lemon juice is sworn by from many of people with acne, i think you should try washing your face with warm water & massaging your face gently with lemon juice then rinsing it with cold water. also, baking soda really dries out your pores, so i would recommend mixing a paste of baking soda & water then apply it to your face, wait for it to dry then wash it off. if none of these methods help, i think you should definitely re-search more home remedies for acne. something might actually work for you. & in the mean time, dont bust them. good luck.

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I have a lot of scabs and bumps on my scalp. This is really weird to me. I was used to getting these when I had a relaxer but I haven't had a relaxer in almost 8 months & I don't plan on getting another one. I have my hair in braids now. I get these sores no matter how my hair is styled. I use tea tree oil and that helps a little. Where are these scabs and bumps coming from?

i get this too. i believe its a severe case of dandruff. i get it really bad in cold weather because it makes my head really dry. i would recommend going to the chemist & seeing if they have any itching relief moisturiser, or anti-dandruff shampoo. in the mean time, i recommend you massaging squeezed lemon juice on your scalp, it tingles a bit & its not permanent but its an instant removal of scalp build up. dandruff may come back the next day but keep doing it until you can make time to go to the chemist. & to avoid dandruff in future, never tie your hair up after you wash it, let it air dry. dont pick the scabs, & avoid shampoos that give you scalp build up. good luck.

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Sex..... I'm 13, I'm a guy lol,I'm from USA (New York), and willing to have sex. if I ask a girl I really know well, she's sometimes horny and wants to have sex ; i think if I ask her, she will say no and she might tell her friends or say I'm a pervert and slap me. What do I do? ( if it doesn't make sense well my bad because I didn't know how to say it out ;) .)

sex is something that shouldnt be asked for; it is something that just happens because the moment is right. you'll know when the two of you are ready because the chemistry feels unexplainable. it may put you in an awkward situation if you ask for sex, you never know how that person is going to react. just wait until the time is right.

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