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how to tell someone they re weird so they will believe it? I have a friend who's often in denial..how do i help him with that? (link)
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well first of. i doubt that your friend is that weird. its probably because you just think he is weird because you are also weird. which could possible make you good friends.
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I go to boarding school and am decently good friends with a girl I like. I frequently ask her to spend time with me by watching a movie among other things, very little of which she agrees to. I don't feel that this reaction is a result of her not liking me, but rather a result of her being too busy and doing things with her friends. I imagine to her, I am just another friend and it doesn't really matter whom she spends time with. I am not hiding the fact that I like her, and it seems to me that it appears fairly obvious, although I can't tell if she realizes it or not, she probably does. I have known her for four months and have been stuck in the friend zone for quite some time. I am wondering how I can get out of this zone. Would doing more stuff with her as I have been trying help? Or should I take another approach? At this point I only really do stuff with her occasionally on the weekends as during the week she is always with her friends, and I am trying to stay clear of just joining her circle of friends. I am also wondering if I should continue just being her friend (and therefore her friends' friend) or make it clear I want to be more, and how fast should I move. If she had a choice between doing something with me or one of her "girlfriends" she would probably go with her other friend, although she still probably enjoys doing things with me. Any help on this matter would be appreciated. Thanks. (link)
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well this is just what i believe you could do.
i believe that you should have a one on one talk with her. tell her straight up how you feel(but try not to make it awkward). Sometimes its hard to tell someone that you like her, but sometimes you just gotta go for it and that she at least knows u feeling her.
try to get to know her better since you haven't known her that long. find out the things she likes. also try to think of a way to show you how she feels instead of just telling her. you shouldn't just talk the talk but also walk the walk. and hopefully if you show her how u feel, she could feel the same way. also try to spend time with her whenever you have the chance that could help to.
i hope this advice was helpful
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