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I am 27 years old 3 kids and maried for almost 10 years.Ok this is the situation my ex from bak middle school is good frien with my sister and myself.WE started talking or a little bit like friens thats all.Even though i think he still cares for me more than just a friend.Now this the problem my huban found out that h calls me and we talked,and he thinks tht i hav somenthing going on with him.I try to explain him that nothing like that that we are just friends an he not understanding.He even thinking divorce because he thinks that i have somenthing mor than
just friend.I need help.Ihave tryed to explained him that it i nothing like that,that i will never o suh thing.He does not believe me.What could i do to making understand that love him an that he means the world to me.PLEASE HELP!
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he obviously has a problem with trust. if he did trust you than he wouldnt have doubts about your relationship with this guy. if he loved you enough he would listen to you and know that you havent been unfaithful towards him. you said you have 3 kids. you need to let him know that divorce isnt the answer to his mis-trust and this could affect his childrens life in a major way. i am a child of divorce and my life has not been the same since. i hate myself- blame myslef for what happened between my parents.
i would suggest getting all three of you together...maybe even your sister aswell, talking about it may help clear the air. you could get the other guy to explain to your husband that nothign has happened and even though he may still have feelings for you, marriage is sacred and you have taken vows to be together for the rest of your life. XOXO good luck
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I've been told i have possible moderate to severe depression. I'm not allowed to see a counsler or go on meds. My family does not believe in it. lately. i've been feeling horrible. like i wish i had the gun, wish i didnt have to wake up. i've talked to the school counsler a little. my friend took my down there. but i have trouble talking about this to an adult a lot. i never really believed i could have actual depression. just always thought i was a pansy. how can i stop getting so upset? Also, i havent been able to sleep a lot and the exhaustion is adding to my sorrow. i dont know what to do. now its affecting those i love most. even my bf is starting to notice things i wish he wouldnt. how can i talk to my parents about this? or the school counsler?
ps. i use to cut and attempt sucide but i got over that. but now im finding i want to start agian. n its hard not to fall back into the same old hole that it took me so long to get out of. (link)
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i can understand where you are coming from....i sort of self-diagnosed myself with depression. i told a few people about it, like close friends, school counsellors, and i found that they didnt really help. i started talking to a friend i knew froma few years ago just recently and i told him about my problems and issues i ahve with myself and telling someone that didnt really know me kinda helped. now we are good friends. im sort of over the depression. i still get sad alot and have "episodes" where i get all upset and have repetitive thoughts about suicide. i find that writing my problems down on paper help as well. or going to a quiet place, going for a walk, engaging in activity that makes you concentrate on things other than how screwed up you think your life is. i wouldnt suggest going to you parents unless you really feel like they will understand. i am roughly the same age as you and our generation is dealing with issues quite different to what our parents had to or have to now. you are not a pansy,or weak or whatever, just because you ahve depression. you need to know that you arent the only one with it....and it is really a disease. there is always someone out there willing to listen to you and whatever you have to say. XOXOX
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What are those so called "love handles"? (link)
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i think they are the bits of flab that hang over the sides- like on your hips. not really sure.....good question!
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I'm 17 and I have started going out with someone a few days ago. I have liked him for awhile and before we started going out he was messing around with another girl but promised me he had called it off with her. I want to believe and I'm trying to trust him, but this weekend I went camping and I tried calling him to say hi but he wasn't home so I called his best friend wondering what he was doing but he wasn't with him. He finally called me back and said he had been driving around but he wouldn't tell me with who. I'm scared that he was with the other girl. And also at school I show affection to my b/f's but not alot to smother them. He doesn't show any affection at all except when we quickly kiss before I leave for class. I know we just started dating but he shows all this affection for me when were alone but none if someones around. What do I do? please help me.
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i think you should confront him about it. you need to be abole to trust most definetly. any solid relationship is based on trust so if you dont trust him, maybe its not such a good idea to be going out with him. and you should talk about any concerns you have with your relationship even though it is still early days.
Good luck.
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I think I'm pretty.. but I stand next to girls at my school and my cousins who can be so beautiful, and I feel as if nothing stands out about me.
I'm pale.. like not disgustingly pale its just I dont tan easily.. and I have light-brown hair, and brown eyes.. and I mean sounds boring, but I admit I like how I look when I have makeup on, and sometimes without it. I mean, I'm not the makeup type. I skateboard and dont wear dresses and stuff and say I hate makeup and all that.. but the truth is I just want to stand out.
I have thick hair.. how can I make it look thinner? Should I get it permanately straightened or are their any special products that last and dont leave my hair greasy and stiff?
Also, what mascara is good? Sometimes I wear great lash.. and I rarely wear even THAT for makeup.. or eyeliner.. I mean I'm just trying to stand out that ONE DAY so people know how beautiful I can really be. It sucks because I'm a good person, and people say Im beautiful or pretty I just dont SEE it right now ya know?
Also, how can I lose weight around my thighs and butt area? I mean Im not fat at all but I feel a bit unproportioned..
I just wanna stand out.. and be confident..
any tips??
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Everyone is beautiful in their own way!! there are probably heaps of things about you that "stand out", maybe you just dont think they do. maybe your beauty lies in your personality. If you feel good about yourself then you give off a vibe...and people will see that. People care about people who care about themselves.
You can get your hairdresser to thin your hair out when you get it cut- permanantly straightening your hair just drys it out and make it stiff anyway.
Be natural- if you dont like wearing make-up then dont. wearing a bit of mascara isnt going to make you "stand out" in such a way that people will notice you more.
i feel a bit unproportioned too. in the same areas. i have been going to the gym and walking a bit...i think it has helped tone up my bottom a bit.
hope this helps....good luck
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