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in the movie trainspotting are people speaking english or what? (link)
they're speaking heavy scottish. can't understand the accent coz it's soooooo thick.

watch it was subtitles. it's one of my favourite movies :)


no matter how hard i try i just can't seem to get over my ex boyfriend. its been about a month n a half since we broke up. and i love/loved him with everything. i tried dating other ppl, but nothing works :( any suggestions on how to move on?

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It took me a year to get over my last boyfriend. Thorughout that time, i kept telling myself 'yup im over it' but realised i wasn;t. it just takes time... you can't force it or make yourself believe it... \don't rush into another relationship to try get over your last, it's not fair for the other person.

Just remember the reason you broke up. if you got back together, would there be a happy ending? or just more pain?

if it's all pain - you don't want to go through it again... It's cliche to say, but there are plenty more fish in the sea... maybe you just need to swim out a bit further ;)


okay like i'm not really that photogenic and i realllyyy like super badly want to be. is there any ways to like make yourself photogenic? any tips?
i hate it becasue when ever people are like lets take pictures i never want to because they always come out weird. i don't think i'm like really ugly or anything but i'd like to take good pictures.

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Why don't u just practice in the mirror? Practice smiling, smirking, whatever you think looks best. and then get your angle right. and do it in every photo :P hahaha

But seriously,, i have worked out my 'angle'... i turn my head the the left, smirk with the right side of my lip up, and lift my chin up a little, with my left shoulder lifted toward my chin. I subconsciously do that pose in every photo now, i don't even have to think about it - whenever i see a camera - it's straight to that pose. hahaha

(i'm not photogenic in every photo, but if u find your best angle, it helps :D)

Good luck :)


ok ill tell you how i feel and see wat you think.

i feel like im obsessed with my bf, i wait for his calls, and wen hes not happy, i feel like its always me thats done something wrong, so then i go do something nice for him or buy him something to make him feel better.
how do i get rid of these feelings of alwayssss wanting to be with him, its like i cant concentrate on my own life. im always concerned with wat he is doing.
so yes, how do i stop this, i feel sometimes i have to pretend that i hate him just to not constantly think of him, its really annoying!!
i feel like if he doesnt spend fri and sat night with me, he'll go out and get drunk u no or play up, which he wouldnt because he doesnt go nightclubbing or anything but i seem to get really upset wen he wants to spend a fri or sat night apart. weeknights are fine cause we both got work the next morning, so i always stay at home, but on weekends its different, i just cant seem to get a handle on my own life again you no, i feel like im revolving everything i do around him.

anything right now would help, because i feel like im getting to possesive or a bit controlling. please help, hes really good to me and supportive with my emotions so thats all good, i just want to be able to turn the tables a bit you no, make him make the plans for a change, or wait for me, instead of me waiting for him. its hard to explain how i feel, but yeah.
please help
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It's called love, sweetie ;)

I think part of the reason why you want to be with him all the time is because you don't trust him. I'm sure he loves you too and it's great he is supportive of your emotions. You just need to learn to trust the guy. Let him go out with his friends when he wants - give him time to miss you and brag about you to his friends :)

It's great to be with the person you love, but it's also great to know that you, yourself as an individual, can do things on your own. You don't need a guy to make you who you are, because you're special on your own.

It's easy to say "just stop thinking of him"... much easier than it is to do!! I know how you feel!! But try to focus on somethign else, other friends, or school, or work or anything (take up a hobby that does not involve him). Coz sometimes time apart is more important than time together (it makes you realise how much you miss that person!)




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