Member Since: August 26, 2009
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Last Update: August 27, 2009
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15 year old female . & i want to be in charge of the relationship . my boyfriend lately has beeen in the i dont give a crap mood and he talks to girls and he gets mad about everything, also he loses patience with me alot, and he says that im annoying . he is always making fun of me and stuff in front of his friends and he always treats me bad and makes me feeel like if i was his dog or something. is there any way that i can stay with him , but make me be in charge ? and stop him from treating me this way ? (link)
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First off, there is no "in control" of a relationship. You can only truly control yourself and that is what you need to do here. I know that you are young and when things don't go ideally in a relationship, we always look to ourselves for why things go wrong or what we can "fix". In this case, please recognize that you need to get a grip on your self esteem. If you don't respect yourself, it is difficult for others to respect you. Which brings me to the heart of your issue. Your boyfriend is disrespecting you. Recognize that you are better than that and know that, truly, there are other men out there that don't show their ass by disrespecting women. Chalk it up to experience, acknowledge you're better off without the heartache and love yourself enough to walk away. Better to find out now than later. I wish you the best.
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I'm only sophomore and in the future, i hope to become an entertainment lawyer. Can anyone in this field of work tell me what i should be expecting to get into if i decide to continue along this career path and can you tell me the things i might have to do that will help me get a head start in this career? (link)
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While I am not a Sports and Entertainment attorney, I am an attorney and know a bit about reaching for the same brass ring. First you'll need to get a bachelor's degree. I would advise staying away from pre-law so you don't burn out. I have an undergrad in writing, which allowed me to enjoy my undergrad years and provide me with a solid foundation for my career as writing and communicating are key. Second, you need to get through law school and pass the bar. This is the basic foundation for getting the paper you need to practice. As for that specific field, it's all about connections. Network, job shadow, fight to get internships at firms and/or organizations where you will get to work in that area of the law. You will need to be aggressive, ambitious and fight your way to the top. If you want it bad enough, you can make it happen.
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