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So I have Netflix. My mother pays for it. I'm gonna stay at my friends house this weekend and she doesn't have Netflix so I thought, "Hey let's activate her Xbox 360 on my account so we can watch it"

I currently use my Netflix on my Wii and my mom uses hers on the ps3 in her house so we have 4 spots left to use. I'm just wondering, how will I be able to remove the Netflix before I leave?
I know my mother wouldn't let my friend just keep it on her xbox for free so I won't be adding it if it's not removable. So if it is, how will I be able to do that?

I'm assuming my friend won't know how since she's never had Netflix before. (link)
yep all you have to do is delete it from your hard drive and it will unregister it


Im dating someone but i like someone else. Is that bad. Like we flirt here and there ALOT. But thats my bf bestfriend. So i dont know what to do. I try to stop taking to him but i just dont. I like him alot and he says he likes me to but im not sure if i believe him. For some reason i cant stop. So any advice here??
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Ive been in this situation once, and it got bad (me being the bf's best friend). Make a long story short, ALL it accomplished was losing 3 friends and needless to say im not with her anymore, and by you saying that he likes you too, that tells me you two have already talked behind your bf's back... it saves alot of friends if you just be honest, but you do what ya gotta do!


Alright, Im going to preface this by saying, Im not your average asshole guy who thinks the world loves him, so temper your responses as if youre talking to someone who is reasonable and who approaches things with a relatively open mind.

So, Im in this relationship. One in a long line of similar ones, I have a tendancy to get into the serious kind, and my girlfriends tend to stick around for the better side of a year. My current and I are just about at the 18 month mark.

We have hit this point where I am comfy. I like talking to her, and having her around, and doing the cute little couple things,but I also like my space, and try to communicate that to her in a non hostile or not "get off my back" toned way. I try to just let her know gently when I need to just chill out and not be sitting on the couch with her in my lap.

But she, on the other hand, just cant seem to get enough. She wants me to hold her from the second I get home until the second I leave for work the next day, and generally suffocates me.

Now, Im pointing out what she does, but this behaviour has led to EVERY SINGLE BREAK UP Ive had in the last 8 years. 6 ltrs and a few month - 2 month beginnings. Girls hit this point where they want you around them 24/7, and excuse me if I like my partners to be _part_ of my life and not the entire focus of it.

So as I said, Im not an uncaring person. I cuddle after sex, I like laying together and watching a movie, I give her a massage nearly every night, but I dont want to be wrapped around ANYONE every second that Im not at work. I hate my job, and at times I enjoy going to get a respite from her. Its fucking ridiculous!

So, what the hell should I do? I mean, Im not going to say theres something wrong with me. Hell, I would say that Im more affectionate on a regular basis than the average guy I know, but I like a few hours a day to sit at the computer and play games, or to take a hot shower _alone_ or maybe, just maybe, fall asleep in a position thats comfortable to me, not that makes her feel like my teddy bear.

I cant figure it out. Are all girls like this? Or do I just have some wierd attraction to girls who do this and havent figured it out? I dont know. But its the reason I keep having to end relationships, and I like this girl, I dont want to break up with her because shes suffocating me.

Angry women responding saying Im a pig, or that I dont deserve her, or anything else of an un-thought out and abrasive nature will get a one and an angry riposte. (link)
DUDE i see other girls like this every day. 1 in particular is just downright crazy. I mean literally he CAN NOT go ANYWHERE without her and if he does it has to be time controlled. The friends she HAD she gave up to be with him and now "his friends are her friends" and me looking at it from an outsider POV, it just makes her look crazy when she comes everywhere out with us thinking EVERY SINGLE OTHER GIRL is "checking him out"... Finally getting to a point where i dont even want to hang out with them becuase she is there 100% of the time no questions asked adding her opinion to EVERYTHING we say... I have seen alot of this (that being the worst it can get) and some not so bad but like you see some that dont live together just sit outside there house till they get home waiting endlessly to be with them and all they want is a little breathing room...

My girlfriend and I have a very trusting relationship, tons of alone/separate time if needed, when she wants to go out i'm happy because you need your friends and we all need to keep them. We do not live together and she spends the occasional night over. I also don't understand why some of them need to leech... We are not going anywhere and the closer you try to get the farther away we want to be from you... Insecurity is bad news and i cant seem to figure out how anyone can live with someone breathing down your back every single moment of every single day?




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