Member Since: June 28, 2015 Answers: 1 Last Update: June 28, 2015 Visitors: 185
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I'm 20, female, straight. i cant connect with the opposite sex! I'm at that age where i want to find my life long partner, settle down and have kids with in the future, however, i just don't connect with any male in that way, i just don't find any sexual attraction, even if i really want there to be. Is there something wrong with me? As a child i always had low self esteem, plus I'm not exactly the prettiest girl,any male i have like would always be after my best friend of the time.. I've grown sort of use to this now, as its a joke how many times it has happened. I also had undiagnosed ptsd, i don't know, but could it be anxiety? Or maybe I'm just not meant to find someone. I just need advice, or if anyone could just help me see from a different angle that would be great! (link)
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I think that you will find the dream person for you. It just takes time and that's the bad part. Like you said you have had guys go for your best friends and those people just weren't the one for you. I'm sorry that happened but I believe that you shouldn't dwell on it. I think that that right person will come by and you will be able to make the right connection. You will be able to feel that this person is the right fit for you and if the other person thinks so too then you may have found your lifetime partner. I do however, think that if you do meet someone and you are with this person for a while then the relationship does happen to fall apart then there is always more people out there and I know it sucks, but trying is the only way you'll know. Dont get discouraged if you cant find the right person right away and I think you will be good
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