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Q: Me and my best friend new eachother eversince we were three.. then las t year i moved out of the provance, i still been trying to keep in tuch but it seems like eveytime i call she's out or busy, and when i log on to msn she logs out.
Also i used to keep a group of frinds like 5 of us togther then when i moved everyone hates eachother know..was it cuz everyone wanted me and was willing to be with people they hate just to be with me?.. will know everyone who was in my "possy" hates my even my best friend for moveing.. but it's NOT MY falt i had to move to the other side of the contry..what should i do? or even what should i say?
-messed up friends

This happend to me, except it was summer vacation last year. All of my "friends" were nice to each other, but it turned out some of them were only being my friend because one of their friends were hanging out with me.

Anyway, I would ask them what happend because, it may not even be about you moving. If this doesn't answer your question or need anymore help just let me know.

Q: Okay, a year ago, me and my boyfriend, blake, broke up. I found out he cheated on me and I was cheating on him, but he kinda physically hurt me. He moved, but eveyrbody sasy he's coming back, and he swore he'd come back this coming skool year. I'm freaked cuz last night, I had a dream about him (won't go into details). I think I still like him ,but I don't know if I do cuz every time I hear his name my skin crawls. Could somebody help me? I wanna know what to do!

You might still like him, but if he physically hurt you, like hitting you, it's not true love. One of my family members went throuh the same thing today actully. He hit her twice, but she still stayed with him and if it happend once it will happen again.
You may still like him, but if he hurt you, then he doesn't feel the same way about you. Sorry if this is bad, but I'm trying to help.

Q: Last year i had some really good friends. But this year we dont hang out anymore. :(

this year, i made 3 new AMAZING friends, though, and i love 'em to death, but my old friends are great too! i wanna hang out with them again, but we dont even talk, idk what to do!!

please help!

I would talk to your old friends. If they ignore you, they weren't true friends. I went through the same problem and they ended up just going on with their lives.
I hope that don't happen with you, but life has alot of ups and downs and most of the time we get through them. If that doesn't answer your question just let me know.

Q: Please Dont Delete this question. just because i have my own veiws donst mean that you can deprive me of advice!
Please Dont Delete this question. just because i have my own veiws donst mean that you can deprive me of advice!
Does anyone else think that people like Ashley Simpson, Avril Lavene(how evr you spell it), and hilary duff and all those other people think that they are hardcore or something and its really annoying?? i mean most of them cant even sing in the first place(or act for that matter). and also i think that as music is getting newer it is getting worse. there are some good bands but some are just plain irritating to listen to!! my freinds dont agree with me. does anyone else think this way??!!
ill rate, no matter what the answer is.

I like Ashlee Simpson, but Hillary Duff and Avril...not a real big fan of anymore. I see where you coming from though.

Q: Ok so here it is.
me and my BFF have been best friends for 7 years
I moved away from where I use to live like 3 years ago...so me and her live an hour and a half away but still are very close well I met this guy and we started going out and I love him to death but I think my BFF is kinda jealouse of my bf cuz he gets to see me all the time adn we do stuff together alot and I tend to talk about him alot I try not to but idk..anywayz...what should I do should I do should I stop hanging with him so much....and should My bff be close to me then My bf???.......PLEASE HELP

Maybe you should plan a double date or a get togethor. If that doesn't work or one of them don't agree with it, then just talk to your friend about your relationship with your bf and find out more about how she feels. I hope I helped!

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Hey I'm Emily. I am a cheerleader for my middle school and we have a total of 11 girls on my team. I am the loudest of my team. At a game and in everyday life ((hehe)) My best friends are awsome. They are the coolest girls you'll ever meet. I love music! My whole family does actully. My dad plays the drums, my mom and sister sing. I can play the drums, guitar and I can sing. My friends and me have a band lol we haven't really decided a name yet ((bluh)) and my friend Kaitlyn and me write the songs. I also give good advice so if you need help with ANYTHING just let me know! There is much more to my life, but I'm not gonna say anymore ((deal with it))

XOXO Emily

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