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My friends already get that I am, but I just can't seem to tell them I'm bisexual. And don't even get me started in my family! I believe they're extremely homophobic. How can I tell anyone that I'm bi when I can't even seem to tell myself that?

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What do you mean by your friends already get that you are? That you are what, bisexual? And if you feel that it's unsafe for you to tell your family- or anyone for that matter- about your sexuality, then do not feel like you have to, it doesn't make you weak or coward to keep it to yourself, it makes you smart for staying safe. As for your friends, figure out their views on the topic before coming out. But before you tell anybody, except maybe a couple select friends if you feel you need somebody to talk to about it, make sure that you know for certain what you are. If you come out now as bisexual but later realize that you're actually full gay, or that you made a mistake and are actually straight, or maybe pansexual or another orientation, then it's confusing for other people when you correct them, and sometimes hard to come out again with your newly discovered sexuality. So tl;dr: know yourself before letting others know, and dont feel like you have to come out if you feel its unsafe to come out, and find out how your friends might react to the subject before telling them. You aren't abnormal or anything, this is the way you were born. Bisexuality is a real orientation, don't let anybody try to convince you otherwise. Good luck!


Hi!

Is there someplace I can go that will show me the weather conditions from yesterday, or any previous day I guess?

I just wanted to know how hot it was at the hottest point in the day.

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search "weather in *your town* from *yesterdays date*" and you should be able to find it pretty easily :)




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