Member Since: June 20, 2007
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Last Update: June 20, 2007
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So I have a boyfriend whom I have been with for a lil over 2 months.We've been talking for months before we actually started going out.Or made it official.In between all that.I was talking to my ex.Really my ex was trying to get back with me.And I have feelings for him still and always will be.Not necessarily strong ones or whatever,But you get my drift.He always seem to come in mind.I try not to let it effect my relationship with my boyfriend,But I mean he sometimes ends up in the conversation.Not necessarily with my boyfriend, But with like friends and family.I feel guilty though.For even having any thoughts about him because my ex was a jerk,But I mean I can't help but think about him.I don't know how to get him out of my head.I'm running out of things to do.I don't want to think I'm dating my boyfriend because of my ex because i'd honestly feel ashamed.I just need some help with this.Usually I'm the one giving the advice.I just don't want to lose my boyfriend.He is just so amazing and sweet and what I want.He makes me happy.Soo... question is..what do I do? (link)
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girl ive been in this exact position recently. i had a boyfriend whom i was truely in LOVE with, and we had problems and i broke it off when i KNEW with all my heart i shouldnt. it wasn't easy cuz i would wait around for him to call and take me back and after a while i just got sick of it and i started dating this other guy that i had been talking to. when he finally asked me to be his girlfriend (not my ex) i said yes, but for weeks i was in such a bad posistion because i knew i was still in love with my ex. i looked at it as, if he loved me as much as he said, he wouldntve waited so long to take me back. my new boyfriend is everything ive wanted just as you, so if you cant say that about your ex now, then it doesn't matter. just lay low when it comes to talking to him bc thats what will get you the worst. aviod him if you have to, delete his screen name, take his number out of your phone, anything you have to. itll hurt but at least youll have more thoughts on your current boyfriend. and hey, maybe if he doesn't work in the near future you can go back.
dont stress it hun.
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