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15/f What are some cute names I can put as my display name on myspace?? My name is Julie. Any suggestions???

-Julez
-J.
-Miss Julie
-Jewels

-Demi

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(female) i'm really tight if you know what i mean. how do i loosen myself up fast and efficiently? my boy and me tried to have sex but it wouldnt fit.

After you have sex enough, it will eventually stretch out. So dont be worried.
-Demi

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This question might be for the search-pro that happens to be extremely bored!

I'm trying to find information on laws reguarding using a blacksmithing forge in Tennessee. My search has been difficult due to the fact that there is a city in Tennessee named "Pigeon Forge". I've tried searching on Google using the keywords "Tennessee fire laws forge -pigeon", but haven't come up with anything.

Can anyone out there help?

I live in Tennessee. I can answer this really well. You need to be more specific with the question and email me at ask.demi@yahoo.com

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my boyfriend's birthday is the 30th.
i have literally no money, so as my present for him, he's going to come over to my house and hang out for a while.
i plan on watching a movie of some sort, but since he's picking it out, i don't know what type it will be.
and i know the type it is will set a mood too.
but the point to all of this is, i want to kiss him (we haven't kissed before.)
i'm more nervous than i should be, and i don't really know how to go about it.
i'm kind of shy (getting a lot better though :] ) and he's a little shy too.
any advice helps at all, thanks.
(:

You don't need to be nervous. It is over before you know it. Like in 4 seconds. It's not that scary. And he's probably nervous too. So, if you are confident, and he notices that, then it'll probably make him more confident. And, don't point out if he is a bad kisser, because that will make him feel horrible.
-Demi

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recently at a party..my brothers friend was like flirting with all my friends. he is like a total player and just wants a girl pretty much. especially when he is drunk haha. well i got a little drunk that night, and he was helping my up the stairs and stuff, then he slept in the same bed as me..we didnt do anything, but like major cuddling and stuff..and he tried to kiss me, and i backed off, im pretty sure, but i was a little buzzed at that point so idk if i did back, but i dont think so. anyways, i kept telling him to leave, and when he didnt i had to walk him to somewhere else to sleep. i feel awkward now, and i am really nervous for when my brother brings him over again. ok so what should i do..like just act normal? avoid him? its gonna be so weird! please help, and please dont give advice if your gonna say im horrible for doing that, because all i did was no more than kiss, if that even happened. and if not, it was just cuddling and stuff. alright thanks! im almost 17 if it helps by the way!

Your were put in a tough and stressful situation. If your brother brings him over, just act normal, don't avoid him, because he would think something was up. You guys were just drunk, so he probably didn't know what he was doing either. Don't make it awkward between you two. Just act like nothing ever happened.
-Demi



Yes. Dont act weird around him. Just be like, Oh, Well, I was drunk, so I didnt really know what I was doing.
-Demi

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i know its long , but help is really needed

Justin shouldn't keep you away from your friends. And just because your white and Eric is black, nobody should care, because that's just raciest. And if you wanna txt Eric, and Justin dumps you, he's not a true boyfriend anyway. He needs to understand that you won't do anything again and you just want to apologize.
-Demi

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please i need to know the difference between and xbox, wii, and play station 3 cause im getting one of those for christmas and i haven't decided which one i want =| thnx in advanced :)

A wii: You get a braclet sorta remote control and tie is around your wrist, this game is where you actually get up and participate which is really fun.
A PS3: It's like a PS2, only it has better graphics and you can download free games off of it's internet.
A XBOX360: This is nothing special. It's only cool because it has good graphics and it is more advanced. I wouldn't pick this but, that is my personal opinion. And, also, it has games, that don't come in any other form other then XBOX360.
-Demi


Since you are older then a Wii, I would probably suggest a PS3.

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Can anybody find me the code to hide the orange bar that says "So&so's Blurbs" on myspace?

:)

There are tons of different codes for this. I would suggest some websites like
preppy-lyts.com, because they have tons of awesome hiding codes. If you can't find it there, you can always check their affiliate websites. I'm sure you will find it in that chain somewhere.
-Demi

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My boyfriend and I live about 40 minutes away and usually only get to see each other two or three times a week because we're both so busy. Sometimes its a stressful realtionship but its worth ever single moment.

Last night when he came over he gave me my Christmas present saying he couldn't wait any longer. It was a diamond necklace. An extremely expensive diamond necklace. Let me just say here that he's only a junior in highschool and has a part time job at Staples.

I was having trouble before trying to think of what to give him. But now its even harder. What says I love you without being too much? And how can I compair with his gesture? I'm not saying this is a competition of who can get who the better gift its just a matter of me feeling that I should get him something as amazing as what I got me.

Any suggestions?

Yes, your right, don't get anything thats way more expensive then he got you, because then he might feel bad. And if what you get him is less expensive then what he got you, he may feel special. You could never go wrong with some cologne that smells super yummy, like the Abercrombie cologne "Fierce." If you don't like that idea, you could get him something (like a jersey) with his favorite team.
-Demi

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