Member Since: January 15, 2007
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My boyfriend of almost two years dumped me a week ago. We haven’t spoken since. I was sort of expecting it so all he said was “I can’t do this anymore. I’ve had one foot out the door for months.” I didn’t want to cry in front of him or get angry, so I just told him he could leave, and he pretty much ran out.
Now, I know I want him back. I know I miss him. I feel like most of our problems existed entirely in his head, but I do accept that it is over and there is no way we are getting back together. I’m a little confused though. I wish I’d listened to more of his explanation so I knew just what he was thinking (and that he doesn’t hate me, have no respect for me or think I’m a total idiot... all those nice things you are supposed to reassure someone of when you dump them.)
Should I e-mail him and ask for his reasons? Just to put my mind at ease. I’m not sure he could actually say anything that would make it easier... Or should I just let it go and keep on not speaking to him at all? (link)
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Well, I think you are NEVER sure if it's really over. Email him or whatever is the best way for you to contact him. Ask him the reasons ... Explain to him that you are confused. If you love him and you really care about him be consistent. He can't just have no feelings after two years.
But If he made it clear it was over. Forget him.. I'm pretty sure you are a very prety girl on the inside and out. And you can find someone that you deserve that will treat you like a princess and you are gonna be hard to leave.
But for a while be single enjoy it.. You have the rest of your life to be in a commitment. Have fun while you can I mean think of all the cute guys out their that you can flirt with now. :]]]
well i hope I helpd - Delicious
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