Member Since: April 15, 2012
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My husband and I have had a trip planned with our friends to go to Cancun in May for months. My mother informed me yesterday that she has airfare miles she wants to use and is planning a vacation to Cancun as well because it is such a good deal. The only problem is she is planning to go the same exact time as me. I am really upset about her lack of consideration. Am I crazy, or is this completely rude of her?
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It sounds like your mom needs to find some friends of her own instead of inviting herself to do things with you and your friends.
She should have at least asked you, first, if it would be okay with you if she were to go.
I think you're just going to have to be kindly assertive and explain that this is a vacation among your husband and your friends and you kind of need your privacy because you all plan to let your hair down and get a little wild.
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Ok so my boyfriend and i have started to be sexually active and he tried to finger me for the first time and couldn't really get his finger in, and it felt so uncomfortable. he asked me if my cherry had been popped and i don't think it has so he asked me to do it by fingering myself or with a tampon because he doesn't want to ( which i don't blame him haha) but im afraid and i don't know how to do it with it hurting as little as possibly. plus i dont use tampons so i cant use that to do it, please help 15/f (link)
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It's wise to visit the doctor before you begin being sexually active. The doctor can make sure you are healthy and can advise you about protection against STDs and about birth control. They can also check to see if you need a hymenectomy or hymenotomy.
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i dont really have a very good commutaction or relationship with my mom i dont really talk to her even when she asks me stuff i just nod my head and i dont have a aunt and my dad doesnt live with me my mom over 50 so she doesnt get her period any more also im really shy i was also voted the most queit ist in the school i dont know how to tell her can u help ps also she doesnt have a cell or a email also if i leave a note my step dad would proabaly find it and i dont really like to talk to my parents help plz (link)
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Does your school have a counselor you could talk to? Counselors are trained to listen to problems people have and to help them with solutions, and they are required by law to keep all conversations confidential.
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