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I can answer any question you have for me. I may be young, but I have smarts and experience. I am willing to answer any question that is given to me at any time. I specialize in any teen problems, because of course I am a teenager and I understand what they are going through. Although I will still answer any question given to me. Each question I answer is given alot of thought and research... Thank you for your questions!
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Hey, basically I have had ear acge for a few days so I put it down to havinf dirty ears so I clean them but recently I was putting my foundation on and felr a small little lump thats so painful to turn my head, touch and uts making my neck ache (left ear) and its travekinf onto my shoulder despite my partner giving me massages doesnt seem to help its not even noticalble only when you touch it but I cant sleep woth it and my ear goes numb in so scared to what it could be I just need reassuring :) but as we speak im in serious pain with this tiny little lump please help

Thanks sam (link)
I had the same problem a few years ago... Wash it carefully and put some ice on it... Wash it frequently DO NOT SQUEEZE OR POP IT it will only make the problem worse. It should go away within a week or two with this, if not try calling a dermatologist and go in for an appointment. It won't need surgery but perhaps a little medication. You can also use honey to soothe the pain, or benadril cream, or the benadril pill to help the swelling. It is not a big problem and should go away quickly.


I've been in a situation when me and mom don't get along and it's gotten worse i live with my dad and step mom while my mom lives two hours away I don't get to see her often and when I try to she doesn't have time for me I have been talking to people like my dad about it but every day it eats me up I get upset about her and it hurts me I've gone to council ing but she told me it was my fault and I ruined our relationship when I left I was 8 at that time and now I'm 15 I miss my mom so much but I hate feeling like I'm walking on eggshells when I'm around her we constantly fight and I don't know what to do anymore I'm tired of crying at night any advice? (link)
It's not your fault. Logically it was not possible you could've done anything to ruin their relationship at 8. It just doesn't work like that. I know you love your mom, but maybe give her some time to sort it out in her head. Or maybe say "mom could we talk for a minute?" then just tell her how you feel. If this doesn't work then you should know you did everything you could to fix it, and maybe try again another time. She can't hold this against you forever, stay near the ones you love, and who love you back


Do people feel anything for the pain felt every day the this life torments my very existence.the logical decision is to simply end it all and move on from the constant haunting trying to simply live amongst the so called human world.BUT.....regardless of how much I do or how good I constantly try to be choosing love first instead of hate always I am kicked and battered by peoples assumptions of less factual evidence and yet is seen as truth when all I try to do is survive .For far too long I have been living on the streets and more so than often have not eaten anything of substance and attempting with little or no success to look clean unfortunately I smell so badly that no deodorant can disguise the sheer stench that two weeks without a shower would give .Because its winter in cape town Im freezing with no warm clothes nor shelter not to mention the people are too accustomed to being unreceptive and dont give the slightest shit to whether I live or die for Ive become invisible somehow all but the smell that hinders any close contact so I'm even more invisible than I really am Although I'm sure every shop, restaurant establishment has a copy of my reseme no calls because the mobile phone with the only way to reach me was mugged of me along with all the worldly possessions I owned so pretty much Im FUCKED who can blame me for opting for death seems everyone else would be singing praises upon the ending of the once great Ian tushade Zacharia .Its not like Im doing nothing to try get out of this rut but truth be told would you employ one in the condition Ive just discibed so what do i DO ,GO TO A CHURCH ,I was told that the church doesnt help people considering all I did ask for was food,Then the next church I went to told me to return the following week and they would help me with some food .Lets look at that for a second ,A week must go by and only then Im sure Id be hungry enough to chow down even the most detesting of meal so there I was wait eagerly for this much anticipated meal which consisted of ONE TIN OF BAKED BEANS that should last till the next month until the next food hand out ........WOOOO WOOOO ,I guess it must be really good baked beans.....must be.Then there was the chart topper the best of the absolutely best ,I met some random guy that after one of my "brutally honest conversations offered me a job in a marketing position." The storm is over "eeeeerrrr.Not ,after table tennis phone calls after I was lent a phone to help sort myself out of which after two days all of a sudden she wanted it back so she could pawn her own phone so she could stoke her gamble bug ,That nasty bastard of a bug that it is ,Anyway the job no-longer exists due to some crap about not having things ready or some shit so ,Hope then no hope .....amusing to some to fuck with ones need.So there we are not a pot to piss in not a crumb to suck on or an identity to call my own so whats the fucking point its clear that some cosmic force wants my evolution to continue so who am I to stand in its way ,Its to logical thing to do.shit I should be happy that Ive made it this far ,Further than most Id assume so why should I be one of greed.Fuck it ........Question ....WHAT WOULD YOU DO?????
BARE IN MIND IVE TRIED ALL POSSIBLE ROUTES FAMILY FRIENDS STRANGERS.AND NOTHING .....NOTHING IT IS AND NOTHING IT SHALL BE ANDDONT BRING THE GOD SHIT THAT WILL ONLY PISS ME THE FUCK OFF (link)
What would ending your life do? Would it make your life happier? Would it make everything better? No, not matter what you gotta power through, it will all get better... You may not know me or believe me... But I promise it will get better... And I never break my promises.


Am I weird? All the people at my school and most my friends say that I'm mental and should be put into a mental facility. They all think that I'm weird and odd because I don't act like everyone else. I'm confused. I'm a free-spirit but I don't know what is wrong. Please help...thank you! (link)
You are amazing... Truly stunning. Nobody I know has that kind or courage. To be who they are, not who the world says they should be. What those people say is mean, and if you want to change because of what they say, it still won't take away the words they said. Stay who you are


I have been transitioning to natural hair for 7 months. I was aiming for at least over a year or more for my transition, but my hair is becoming unmanageable! Every time I wash my hair, my permed ends are always matted and tangled, even with conditioner applied. I detangle my hair & it still tangles. Is it because the two hair textures are beginning to clash?? (link)
Some hair just 'behaves' different ways than others. It is simply impossible for your hair types to 'clash' perhaps if you get a wide toothed comb and worked out the tangles your hair would be more natural looking


Im only 14 I HATE MYSELF i have scars on my wrist and thats why.. I want to know how to get rid of them without surgery!! Please! Someone! Anyone! Let me know!! I want my scar free wrist back. I'll do anything to have it back. Please sometime help fast! I can't take it (link)
There are many easy ways to get rid of scars... But one of the best ways is to take a cotton ball and twice a day apply the honey to the scars... It may take a few days to fully diminish the scar but soon you will be scar free!




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