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Q: I am so proud of my sister! My sister is a model, and is best friends with Hilary Duff! She is in the movie Mean Girls, with Lindsay Lohan! I just reveived a modeling contract, but I am sorta jealous that my sis has been acting for 4 yrs! I am going to be in a movie, but hres is so much cooler, and she is so luky! She met Chad from the OC at the movie premeire! Hes sooo hot.


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Winona
its okay 2 b proud of ur sister and jealous but u have 2 think of it this way many ppl would die 2 b in ur position...hope that helps

Q: My friend told me tht she caught her sister cutting....Can ne1 tell me wht tht is? I asked her wht it wuz and she looked @ me like I wuz crazii...Wht is it?! I need 2 no!!
cutting is when someone takes stress out on there body by using a sharp object to cut their skin in random places..hope u understand

Q: everytime i close my hand into a fist, something pops in every finger. it never hurts but im scared its something that'll lead to something ill need surgery with later...is this normal?
go to the doctor it could b serious then agaian it could just be your knuckles cracking ask you doctor and show them...hope that helps u

Q: Hey I have to get braces in about a month and Im really scared cause I cant imagine having metal on my teeth lol. I just wanted to know from 1-10 how bad it hurts and how long about do people have them on?
it doesnt really hurt when they put the braces on its the after part that hurts. ur teeth will ache 4 a while so make sure u have food u dont need 2 chew have a lot of ice cream it makes ur mouth feel better. most ppl have them on 4 about 1-2 years not that long so dont stress braces work really quickly dont worry when ur done ull smile will look great..hope this helps

Q: about a month or 2 ago, i tripped and fell and a nail sliced my leg all the way down...(sorry if that is gross) and now i have this really ugly scar...is there anyway to get rid of it? thanks! ill rate you either a 4 or 5!!
i kno wut u mean i have a scar on my leg 2. try the airbrush tan stuff for your legs and if that doesnt work just ignore it everyone has thier im perfections that they hate about themselves...hope it helps

Q: (13/f)

i windsurf a lot and i compete a lot to. so next friday i have this competition and i qualified to compete with older people. which means im going to be the youngest one windsurfing in the competition. and well im REALLY nervous..does n e one know what i should do to calm myself down for the race next friday?

thx
just try to chill. talk a long soothing bubble bath.but just make sure not 2 put pressure on urself. u shouldnt care wut other ppl think as long as ur out there havin fun that should b all that counts but if its not think of it this way ur the youngest so u could beat the other ppl proving that age doesnt matter. it shouldnt matter if ppl r starin while ur windsurfin that should give u more confidence if thier starin then give them sumthin 2 stare at...hope u win

Q: Ok so I'm starting my new job at Subway on Monday. And I want to know how I should do my make-up and stuff. I have medium brown hair, green eyes, and kind of tan/pale skin. They said we can wear jewelry, but not long necklaces. I want to wear earrings but do you think hoop earrings would be ok for the first day? They also said we could have our nails done but just professionaly. Thanx! I'll rate you a ONE!
when you do your makeup make it look natural not a lot of vibrant colors. paint your nails soft colors like light blues and light pinks dont wear bracelets.there bot the best to be working with food. wear simple stud earings and if u really want to wear a necklace wear a small chocke type necklace nothing to big. when u do your hair make sure its up like a pony tail or somethin just make sure nothing can get in the food or it doesnt stick out to much...hope u have fun

Q: which works better to lose weight
yoga
pilates
aerobics
running


thanks!!
i kno for a fact running works but im not so sure about the other things so try running for about 15-30 mins a day and see how it works..hope it helps

Q: does anyone know of any good websites with aim icons that are cute...not the dolls or original gay ones but cute ones??
well u can go to mytheme.com and get tonz of aim icons and expressions...have fun

Q: Hey,
I need some help!! I really like this guy and he knows that I do but one of my best-friends likes him to but she also likes someone else better!! I have liked him for three months and three days today and she says that I have liked him longe and that I like him more!! He still has not asked me out!! I think he is kind f getting annoyed by me cause I like am obbsesed with him or at least that is what they think!! WHat should I do to get him to ask me out?? If you wanna IM me my sn is volleyball092209
have one someone that knows him thats kindof ur friend ask if he likes u if they tell u he said yes then why dont u just ask him out ull never kno until u try...hope it helps

Q: hey..i am g0in thr0 al0t latley..me and my bf have been fighting n0n st0p..and its scaring me..but ne ways..im almost 16..and i weigh 115..i HATE triple numbers..i want the perfect b0dy..my b0yfriend says im beautifull all the time..but thats kinda what b0yfriends r supp0sed t0 d0..i want to get down to 99..i was belimic way back in the day..but i was 0n the f0ne with my friend and i t0ld her i want t0 bec0me an0rexic..she flipped 0ut and hung up..so0oo i was like fine i w0nt d0 that..and last nite i made myself thr0w up t0 see what its like..i kinda s0rta liked it =\..well my bf said if i ever d0 ne thing "physc0" it w0uld be 0ver f0r g00d..and i was w0nderin w0uld he n0tice if i g0t t0 99..and if ne 0ne else w0uld n0tice..well i neEd helP! =(..MaNdiE x0
dont go back to bein belimic! its not always the bset thing 2 b in the double digits but beauty is in the eye of the beholder u sholdnt go back 2 99 cuz your b/f probly would notice so dont do it

Q: i have thisgirlSz screen name on aim nd me nd her have been talking nd we are like calling each other shortiiesz and all and everythiing iis good and exchanged cell numbers like 5 minutes ago - she iss like my true inner besst friend and well i aint never met her but i talk to her and her twin sister everyday and all and like i wanna meet her and al but like then again ii dont b/c im afraid she aint going to like the way i am personally or ii aint going to like her personality. but i reallly really wanna meet her and hang out with her all the time i mean she and i could be best friends for like ever im just nervous i think well she never gave me an eact date to when we were going to meet but like idk i just know that i need help and i just dont know what to do....HELP!
my advice would b dont meet her. she may seem nice on the net but for all you kno she could be some 40 year old guy pretending to be a girl so i would say no. never meet ppl in person that u find on the internet cuz it could all b a lie

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