14/f
Okay, this might be kind of long. My boyfriend and I have been going out for 7 months now and he's my first boyfriend. For the first few months everything was honestly perfect. I was so happy to talk to him and see him(we talked every day on the phone but we rarely saw each other because we both babysat little siblings)Overall, the summer was great. There were times that I would get bored talking to him but that's to be expected after talking for a few hours a day. Then school started and things changed. We were both starting HS. I was so excited; I loved HS. I made new friends, I'm in all top classes and I'm doing well, and I joined Amnesty International and Key Club. Everything was great but my bf wasn't in any of my classes so I don't see him except for 10 minutes before homeroom. When I did, however, things were different. He was with all of his friends(who I think are obnoxious but I don't complain)and I end up standing there ignored. He acts like a jerk with his friends and is just as loud and obnoxious as them. I'd never seen that in him before. When he did acknoledge me he'd try to hug or kiss me or he'd say something stupid to impress his friends. When i talked to him about it and how I didn't want to kiss in school he accepted it but he still acted kind of hurt. Once a few weeks ago he said, "You know you haven't been hugging me a lot lately" I just said sry that I'd been late the past couple of mornings and I hadn't gotten a chance. Then he said "It's okay its just making me look bad." When I asked him he basically told me that his friends tease him that I don't kiss him and that part of the reason he hugs me in the morning is because of his friends. I was so hurt.
Also, sometimes he embarrasses me. I know that sounds horrible, but sometimes he just acts like a little kid and I feel wierd especially when I'm with my two best friends and their bfs and he acts stupid and is kind of immature. I feel mean saying it but its the truth.
To make matters worse, through all of this I've started noticing another boy more. He's in a bunch of my classes and he's so perfect. He's really nice, talks to me, he's really smart, and he's probably the most good-looking guy I know(he's not even conceited about it either) I always feel awful just thinking about him becasue I know it's so unfair to my boyfriend but I can't help it especially when my bf does something that makes me mad. Also, sometimes I miss being single because for the first time in my life I'm being outgoing and guys are talking to me and noticing me and I can't even think consider them because I have a bf.
I've considered breaking up with him a few times but I don't know what to do. I know he really cares about me he always tells me how much he loves me and how I'm the only good thing in his life. And I really love talking to him on the phone(we still talk every night) For the most part, we have fun conversations and he can always make me laugh. But it feels like our phone conversations are the only good thing in our relationship. I don't get butterflies when I see him anymore, ever. To be honest, I don't even like really seeing him in person lately. I know for a fact that we'll never get married because our visions for the future just wouldn't mix. I want to travel the world and help people then settle down with kids. He doesn't know what he wants to do but he doesn't even think he wants kids. I'm just so confused and stressed about all of this. Please help me.
okay so i was kinda stuck in the same problem as you were except my boyfriend for was immiture and obsessed. i had to break it off with him. so i suggest you break it off with your boyfriend, esepecially if he acts like a big jerk just to try to impress his friends. you dont need a guy like that in your life. tell him how you feel. tell him yall are better off beinq friends it maybe hard but in the end it'll be worth it. esepecially if you dont want to be with him anymore. if he tries to tell you he'll chanqe then give him another chance if you want but if you dont kick him to the curb. i know this may seem mean but its life. and if you dont want him no more you dont have to have him.
--bebas
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I know this guy and we hang out prolly once a week sometimes twice and I think he likes me but im not sure. He likes to tease me alot and he stands behind me alot and starts playing my hair or pats me on the head and when I ask y he starts talking to sum1 else. And also hes always staring at my lips when I talk, nonstop sometimes he stops looking at them and makes eye contact then goes back to my lips. Also he's always asking me who I like and naming guys and then asking if I would make out with them. What does this mean??
I'm for sure that he has feelinqs for you.
Why else would it be that he does all those
thinqs to you. Right? Talk to him though. If you like him, then the better for both of you. If you don't have no type of feelinqs for him,then talk to him and tell him that you would rather stay friends with him then havinq a relationship with him.
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I've never had sex but I've fooled around a lot. I was scared I was pregnant a few weeks ago because I was 3 weeks late. I never got my period for the month of December (Prior to that it came around Nov. 30 and I am usually late). I feel like I should be getting my period now but it doesn't even feel like I'm pmsing. Its almost February and that would mean I didn't get my period in January either?
I took a pregnancy test around Jan. 17 or 18. I took 2 and they were both negative.
Is there any chance I could be pregnant?
Sorry if that didn't make sense. I'm just stressing a little bit.
Thank you.
Dear Pregnant,
This might sound weird but i know how you feel.
You see i'm a teenaqer too. I've never had sex
either and i was in the same postion you were in too. I used to sit in guys laps and all that stuff.I used to hear that if you sat in guys laps, and their hormones came up, that their sperm cells could go in threw your pants. I never found out if that theory was real or not. I've been in the same situation as you have. I never was pregnant. I was just late. If your taking some type of pills, or smoking marijuana(not saying that you are!) your period can come a little late. You said you took two pregnancy test. Try takinq two more this month. If you see that your stomach is getting a bit more bigger then their might be a chance. I took a pregnancy test too. It also came out negitive. IF you don't get your period by Febuary then you should tell your parent or guardian. You may not be pregnant, you probably just have something thats messing up your cycle. It's better to be safe then sorry.
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