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this is the conversation i just had with my boyfriend.. i dont know if he was just really stressed or like if i should take it seriously? help!

me(10:55:21 PM): what
him (10:55:28 PM): I dont know whats wrong... I cant stand this
me (10:55:34 PM): stand what
him(10:56:14 PM): School, life
me (10:56:21 PM): yeaa i know how you feel
me(10:56:34 PM): i have like soo much work to make up still from wen i was sick like a week ago
him (10:56:55 PM): There has to be an easier way
me (10:57:06 PM): what is that supposed to mean
him(10:57:23 PM): And no you dont know how i feel
me (10:57:33 PM): okay then whats wrong?
him (9:58:07 PM): i i cant stand it
him (9:58:15 PM): i think im going crazy
me(10): i know what you mean though
him (9:58:34 PM): this has to get easier
him(9:58:53 PM): for the past half hour ive been thinking of ways to kill myself
him(9:59:00 PM): maybe itd be easier
me (10:58:57 PM): **** shut up
him (9:59:15 PM): i cant stand this
me (10:59:11 PM): stoppp
me (10:59:14 PM): thats not funny
him (9:59:26 PM): its not
him(9:59:32 PM): im crying right now
me (10:59:42 PM): it it just because you have a lot of work to make up?
him (9:59:52 PM): no
me): then what
him (10:00:00 PM): i dont know
me(10:59:55 PM): just like school in general
me (10:59:58 PM): or like something else
him (10:00:15 PM): i hate how so much is always expected of me
him (10:00:20 PM): and i can never do it
him (10:00:36 PM): i hate how everytime i finish something
him (10:00:39 PM): huge
him (10:00:52 PM): that i obsess over forever
him(10:00:56 PM): theres another
me (11:00:52 PM): yea
him (10:01:06 PM): thing just like it
him (10:01:08 PM): and
him (10:01:17 PM): i cant deal with it anymore
him (10:01:34 PM): i feel like i cant make it through life like everyone else
him (10:01:55 PM): and i dont know what to do
me (11:01:56 PM): thats really weird
me (11:01:59 PM): because like
him (10:02:08 PM): i just
him (10:02:19 PM): i jus want it to be easier
him (10:02:24 PM): i wana be an actor
him(10:02:27 PM): they dont do shit
me (11:02:22 PM): i was saying something 2 my mom about that today
me (11:02:23 PM): hahah
him (10:02:34 PM): but i cant do that
him (10:02:39 PM): im not good enough
him(10:02:41 PM): i hate it
him (10:02:55 PM): i dont want to have to worry about everything all the time
him (10:03:10 PM): i just want to relax
him (10:03:20 PM): i hate life
him(10:03:51 PM): i mean
him (10:03:54 PM): all of this
him (10:03:56 PM): work
him (10:04:02 PM): i ts for nothing
him (10:04:12 PM): i want it to stop
him (10:04:20 PM): but then i think
him (10:04:21 PM): wait
him (10:04:29 PM): i have another 8 years to go
him (10:04:38 PM): and the i cry some more
him (10:04:52 PM): and wonder if itd hurt to hang yourself
him (10:05:11 PM): please
him (10:05:18 PM): dont tell anyone about this
him (10:05:39 PM): hang yourself
him (10:05:45 PM): i meant myself
me (11:05:55 PM): **** stop
me(11:05:58 PM): seriously
me (11:06:43 PM): sry it took me so long to answer
him (10:06:56 PM): its fine
me (11:06:52 PM): i was doing something
him (10:07:03 PM): please dont tell anyone
me(11:07:02 PM): about what
me (11:07:05 PM): ?
him (10:07:18 PM): what ive been saying
me (11:07:26 PM): youre not seriously thinking about that right...
me (11:07:27 PM): ?
him (10:07:40 PM): i dont know
me (11:07:38 PM): **** come on stop
him (10:07:54 PM): it would be so easy
him (10:08:01 PM): and id be in a better place
me (11:08:00 PM): thats so weird.. because today i felt like the exact same way.. but i didnt think about killing myself....
me (11:08:04 PM): its just stress
me (11:08:15 PM): okay just think about how in a week its gonna be spring break okay
me (11:08:20 PM): and you wont have anything to worry about
him (10:08:43 PM): ok
him (10:08:44 PM): ok
him (10:08:50 PM): im gunna see you right?
me (11:08:48 PM): yeah
him (10:08:57 PM): ok
him (10:09:02 PM):alright
me(11:08:55 PM): of course
him (10:09:06 PM): i feel better
me(11:09:03 PM): okay good
him (10:09:15 PM): ok
him(10:09:28 PM): now i have to stay up all fucking nighht
me (11:09:26 PM): why
him (10:09:38 PM): because ive been putting this shit off all night
him (10:09:40 PM): all week
him (10:09:44 PM): and
me (11:09:37 PM): yea i know how you feel
him (10:09:47 PM): omfg
me (11:09:43 PM): what
me (11:09:52 PM): ?
him(10:10:03 PM): I HAVE SO MUCH TO DO
him (10:10:04 PM): dsfsgalhk
him(10:10:04 PM): ad gsj l
him (10:10:05 PM): s;nroaV UAK
him (10:10:06 PM): LDF'DFL' K
him (10:10:08 PM): FOJA
him (10:10:12 PM): i hate life
me (11:10:19 PM): **** relaxx everythings gonna be fine

the **** is his name that i starred out. =]

he said a lot of other stuff too but thats just an example and i was trying to calm him down and tell him all the good things about life but i dont know if he was serious or not.. because i doubt he would ever do that to himself. i think hes just frustrated.. what should i do?

if it helps im a frosh in highschool
thanks. =]

oh p.s. later he said...
me (12:52:42 AM): are you sure ur okay?
me(12:52:46 AM): you really wouldnt do that right?
him (12:53:30 AM): Lol right im sorry for scaring you
me(12:54:10 AM): are you sure you wouldnt?
him (12:54:34 AM): Yess go to sleep

omg! first off, you should deff. not let him kill himself. i mean you are his gf! i know it's not easy and i went through this same thing with my bf. just remind him of better things in life other then school and the things he rly stresses about. maybe you should hang out with him and help him study, or just tallk to him so he can relieve all his stress.
good luck xox sammz =]

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