Member Since: January 4, 2013
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Last Update: January 4, 2013
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Hi I'm 22 and I have been with my boyfriend for about 6 months at the begining he was soo nice to me,apart from that I was pregnant with another man baby but my recent boyfriend didn't mind!he told him mum that the baby I'm havin its his!after I gave birth I moved to his mothers house its a nightmare I hate this place so much!!she's so controling and wants to know evrything,and evrytime me and my boyfriend argue he uses the baby agains me and scares me that he will tell his mum its not his.he has he's own place and I go see him once in a while he became soo abusive he shouts at me over litle things and hits me las time he kicked me in my knee and I coudnt walk he have me black eye,and I got bruises all over my body!!I love him soo much but part off me wants to leave him and part of me doesn't!!he doesn't let me go and see my family,friends all I do is look after the baby and worse thing he takes almost all of my maternity money,he's verry abusive and controling,I want to get out this relationship but don't know how!! (link)
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I am so sorry you're going through this, but please do realize just how dangerous the situation you're in: he's abusive and has hit you several times, he isolated you from family and friends so that you'd have no where to run to, he keeps you with his not so nice mother while he has his own place and he takes you maternity money.... hello can't you see the obvious here? he's after your money. Even if he loved you at one time, it's gone what's left is the memory that haunts you. Most importantly, your child needs you! The way your boyfriend is acting it's heading to him being violent to the child too either intentionally or not. DO SOMETHING for you and your baby! Run for your life and his! Go wherever you're welcome and get yourself back on your feet! Create a little heaven for your precious family where this boyfriend does not exist!!
As dreamy it seems it's quiet possible! you can and will make it because you deserve like us all to be happy and being blessed with a child that loves you unconditionally is your biggest strength.
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