Member Since: August 27, 2012
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I'm tired of my son's playing videogames all the time. What are interesting board games I can play with him? (link)
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You may opt to go with Scrabble. You and your child will enjoy this and the great part of this is that your child will also learn from it.
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My friend dated a guy for 6 months and then broke up with him in may. She still likes him but he doesn't like yet anymore. I I like him and he'd giving me signs that he likes me back. Today we were together with other people and he was being a complete jerk to her. I asked him why and he said she deserved it and laughed. It was obvious we both wanted to talk to each other but I stayed by my friends side the whole time. I dont know what to do. He makes me feel so different and great. he came with us today only because I asked him to. Then again she's a great friend and I dont want to lose her. (link)
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choose your friend. Remember that finding a best friend is tougher than finding a guy.
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Tonight, my girlfriend of 4 months has told me that she doesn't deserve to date me. She has had some rather rough relationships where abuse (not physical but mental abuse) was involved. She also has the genital herpes STD, and she's not a virgin either and I'm still one. We are both 26 years old as well. But anyways, when she told me this, I did feel hurt and even angry that she would say this to me. Now usually like every month, she talks about her past. However, its getting to a point where her complaining about her past is beginning to frustrate me. Now I haven't gone through the things in my life that my girlfriend has gone through. Often it can be hard for me to help her too. We did date for a while back in 2010 for about 4 months, but we broke up because at the time she was very clingy to me which I hated and I had issues going on with my life back then too. We got back together in the spring of this year and said we would try to have a better relationship. I want to keep that going, but the fact that she often complains about her past is something that bothers me and I won't tolerate it much longer. What should I do? Also, she lost her grandfather in September of last year and her grandmother recently passed away too. Any help would be appreciated.
Thank you. (link)
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Well you better stay as friends for now. Obviously she still hasn't resolved her issues in the past. Having relationship with someone like that will be difficult.
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Last night me and my friends were at my apartment drinking. My roommate had her ipod in her speakers and I went to go change the song. I saw that a text had popped up from a girl I didn't know that said "what would your friends think if they saw what I text you?" I know it was wrong, but I was drunk and I was curious who this girl was because my roommate is one of my best friends and I literally know every single one of her friends. I looked at her texts and they were talking using ;) faces and referencing to having hooked up before and hanging out and stuff like that. I was shocked. My friend very recently had sex with a guy and she has made out etc. with a bunch of guys. She always gets really attached to the guys she likes and really jealous when her friends hook up and she complains that she hasn't in so long. I have nothing against gays/lesbians (I actually have a lot of gay friends) I am just very confused about this. I thought I knew her really well. The girl she was texting is also 17 and went to the same high school as my roommate. The 17 year old also has a boyfriend and in their conversation they talked about guys they have hooked up with. I am just confused about what to make of all of this and I want to talk to her about it but I can't do that unless I admit to reading her texts. (link)
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Move on with the lesbian thing. So what if your friend is gay? That does not make her a lesser person. In my opinion though you should tell your friend that you read her text message and maybe from there you can talk about what's bothering you. She'll understand for sure since she's your friend.
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So I dont really know what to think or do and I'm hoping I can find some insight here.
Ill try to shorten it as much as possible. My boyfriend of two years who I am in love with and has already given me a ring has severe depression. We are both in our 20s and he realized he has very serious mental issues about 6 months ago that include anger (non violent) and he cannot enjoy anything anymore, including our relationship. While we talked about this and I know it is true, he admitted it to me, he also said that he still loves me and wants to be with me and only me, he just doesn't know where he is in his life or where his life is going.
He is getting professional help so he is on the track of getting better, but he is not very hopeful about it. We basically put our relationship on hold until he gets better. He doesn't really want to act like a couple but he does want us to still hang out and talk every day. Ive asked him clearly if he thinks its better to break up and he starts getting extremely sad and saying no, but then whenever I act like a girlfriend towards him he doesn't respond. I really don't know what to do, I am constantly thinking about him and worrying about him and wanting to spend time with him because we are technically still together, but I don't really feel like I have a partner anymore. I love him very much so even though I have considered multiple times leaving, just cutting him from my life to be able to move on, I break down every time I do, I want to be there for him, but its hard to be so detached when we were once so close. I don't know how much longer I should support him? I don't know how to be able to be there for him without needing him to be there for me... what can I do??? (link)
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If you really love him you will stay by his side and support him no matter what. Yes it maybe difficult for now but once he continues having professional help little by little everything will be all right you just need to be patient and understanding.
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